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User Topic: tailgate today...
rachelc
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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, October 19th (Saturday)

his company is sponsoring one and he went up early to set up. I'll come up later and we'll go to the game too.

me: I hope I don't run into someone I don't want to.

him: I'm sure you won't.

kissed me and took off.I sent him a text that I felt dismissed by that comment and that I think about running into both OW all the time... oh fucking well...


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 48
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

ôSlide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."


Posts: 4511 | Registered: Dec 2010
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, October 19th (Saturday)

I'm sorry rachelc. It hurts when our concerns are just dismissed like everything is "normal" again. And I definitely inderstand the fear of encounter.
Did he respond to your text?


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 470 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
rachelc
Member
Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, October 19th (Saturday)

He came home to get me. That was nice! Said we'd just walk away if we saw them. I didnt say anything but thought, no, we'd leave but.,., we didn't see then, had a good time.
We're home now. His heart is heavy with something, but I'll just wait til he wants to talk....


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 48
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

ôSlide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."


Posts: 4511 | Registered: Dec 2010
Topic Posts: 3