I just finished "I Love You, But I Don't Trust You" by Mira Kirshenbaum. It's helping me, but not really my WS. Does anyone known of a book written by a WS that I could give to him? He might relate better to that.
We are a month from DDay and trying to work things out.
BS (me) 38
6 week EA and PA.
EA DDay 9/23/13; PA DDay 10/21/13
DDay 3(?) 1/27/14. Affair with friends wife 7/13, multiple prostitutes over our marriage and an OW 2 weeks before we got married.
Separated, both in intensive counseling.
Posts: 170 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southeast United States
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Posted: 5:09 AM, October 21st (Monday)
Not a book, but a great thread here at SI. Many have printed it out for their WS's:
"How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair" by
Linda J. MacDonald----its the best.together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family