I guess you're in a good place when you look at your cell phone and realize that today would've been your 23rd wedding anniversary, and your only reaction is "huh, is that today?"
For all those out there struggling, it does get better!
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
phmh Member Member # 34146
Posted: 4:38 PM, October 20th (Sunday)
Indifference is so amazing. Great job getting there!Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo
Posts: 3017 | Registered: Dec 2011
welcome14 Member Member # 26741
Posted: 8:46 PM, October 20th (Sunday)
My 25th would have been the 28th of this month. Nothing but a small pang of sadness that I waited so long to be rid of him, and what I could've accomplished in those 25 years. But I realize he's lost a lot more by losing me. He remarried on my birthday weekend last month, don't know if that was to hurt me or not, but I found that it didn't matter at all except that I felt truly sorry for his victim, I mean wife.... Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx
I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.
Posts: 1126 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
Pass Member Member # 38122
Posted: 8:49 PM, October 20th (Sunday)
That's great, Q. Dying to get to that point!Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous