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SabbyKat
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, October 21st (Monday)

OW posted a new ultrasound.I have mixed feelings.Not 100% sure it is my SO's.It is eating at me.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Healing2012
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Member # 35238
Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, October 21st (Monday)

I am really sorry you're dealing with all this crap. What has your SO said about all of this? Does he think it's his?

I'm assuming they can't determine paternity until the OC is born, but is there a chance the OW has been with other men?

I'm sorry if I'm asking too many questions

Just know that there are people listening and sending you strength...


BS: Me (40)
WS: Husband (46)
Married 8 years
Two children 5 & 17 (my stepson)
D-day #1: 12/18/11
D-day #2: 8/26/12 (still in contact w/ OW)
Status: Separated - not R, not D.

Posts: 355 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Midwest
plainpain
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Member # 40139
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, October 21st (Monday)

I'm so very sorry. My H's AP is pregnant also. I thought she was lying until she posted the ultrasound as her profile pic.


Me: Believer; 40s
Him: Liar; 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R, but still in just plain pain.

Posts: 805 | Registered: Jul 2013
SabbyKat
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Member # 40800
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, October 21st (Monday)

it is possible it is his.They had unprotected sex.He is one of 3 men now.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Healing2012
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Member # 35238
Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, October 21st (Monday)

I'm keeping both of you ladies in my thoughts. I don't know how I would react to that situation. It just boggles my mind that these OW are proud of the lives they're destroying - proud enough to post pictures on FB.


BS: Me (40)
WS: Husband (46)
Married 8 years
Two children 5 & 17 (my stepson)
D-day #1: 12/18/11
D-day #2: 8/26/12 (still in contact w/ OW)
Status: Separated - not R, not D.

Posts: 355 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Midwest
Truly
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Member # 40715
Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, October 21st (Monday)

So sorry you are dealing with this.

I don't really understand the idea behind posting an ultrasound picture...they prove nothing as you can download them from websites .
Personally my pregnancies were private not public fodder. Just my 2cents.

Hope these are proven to be erroneous for both sabbykat and plainpain.
((((hugs))))


There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens


Posts: 257 | Registered: Sep 2013
SabbyKat
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Member # 40800
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Now the OW is making cryptic comments about something being wrong with the baby on FB

Posts: 32 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Healing2012
Member
Member # 35238
Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Hmm...could she have been seeking attention and made up the whole thing? I hate that I'm so skeptical, but I wouldn't put it past an OW.


BS: Me (40)
WS: Husband (46)
Married 8 years
Two children 5 & 17 (my stepson)
D-day #1: 12/18/11
D-day #2: 8/26/12 (still in contact w/ OW)
Status: Separated - not R, not D.

Posts: 355 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Midwest
SabbyKat
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Member # 40800
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

the ultrasound pics look legit.But,who knows what she has up her sleeve.I swear she is baby daddy surfer

Posts: 32 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
tryingmybest2011
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Member # 32584
Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Now the OW is making cryptic comments about something being wrong with the baby on FB

Planting seeds so her FB friends will believe her later, after the hoax has run it's course.


BS: me - 37
WH: him - 37
DD: 8
DD: 11 mos

Married over 9 years, together for 18.

DD#1: 12/12/10 - LTA of 3 years, 2 mos.
DD#2: 02/02/11 - 2 EA/PA with coworkers, a month after the LTA was ended (by OW).

In limbo.


Posts: 323 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Ontario Canada
Swims
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Member # 30992
Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Sabby, look very carefully at the ultrasound she has posted. Does it have any identifying information... her name or DOB? It would be very easy to post an ultrasound from the web. Look carefully!!! And please look after yourself!

Posts: 127 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: East Coast
k94ever
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Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

STOP
LOOKING
AT
HER
FACEBOOK


All you are doing is wrapping yourself around the crazy pole.

IF the pregnancy is real, nothing can be proved until the baby is born and then you get the DNA testing done.

Until then there is nothing you can do.

Stop dancing around the crazy pole.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6491 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
Truly
Member
Member # 40715
Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Grrrr

I hate Fb. Stay away, it will just hurt you all the time and make you as crazy as me!(An impossibility, I fear!)

Fingers crossed it is all lies x
Cos, let's be honest, liars lie...


There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens


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