Just Found Out
User Topic: Wbf Wants Me To Feel Sorry For Him ....
Member # 13515
Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

I just caught him AGAIN with the same Ho and I am done done done. He burned any chance of R in hell and I am supposed to feel sorry for him???

He thinks he's going to die soon as the Dr put him on meds for his heart. I'm adding too much stress by telling him i want out? Because he's the one that cheated and I should feel sorry for him? He doesnt deserve me? BLAh blah blah

Pity Party table of one over here! He's going to get rid of all the animals he bought in the past 3 months cause it was ok that he made me do all the chores but now that he has to do them its too much for him...

Going sell his house and move south....boohoo bloody hoo!

My give a shit button is broken.

Posts: 1127 | Registered: Feb 2007
Member # 35128
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

If he has heart problems, then he should be focusing on his health, a solid support system including a healthy relationship with his GF.

Instead, he is choosing to destroy the sanctity of his relationship and go stick his dick wherever he can, adding more chaos, blaming you for it, etc. etc.

Tell him to enjoy his heart attack and you might even put a daisy you picked on the side of the road on his grave when the time comes. Also, tell him you hope his whore has good insurance, which being a poacher of another woman's man likely has nothing of value to offer except her spread legs.

Sorry you are going through this. Don't let the bullshit excuses and blame shifting typical of cheaters get to you. Always step back and look at who absolutely LUDICROUS the things that come out of cheater's mouth truly are when you look at them from a distance.

Good luck to you!

[This message edited by MediumRare at 1:45 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]

BS (ME): 44
WS(HER): 42
9 years
OM#1- 20-something loser, stole bunch of my things after she had sex with him in our bed (no condoms, STDs)
OM#2- 24 year old, unemployed loser, lives with mom & dad
DDay 1/2012
NC 3/20/2012
SGASDay 4/1/2012

Posts: 721 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: California
Member # 13515
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Thank you for advice.

you are correct that if he is THAT CONCERNED for his heart health, he should be making better choices to keep his life as stress free as possible.

What a fucktard!
(so love that saying I adopted from here!)

Posts: 1127 | Registered: Feb 2007
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Well, call me a bitch (and smile when you say that!), but I''d tell him to have his damned heart attack real soon, while you were still his benefictory! At least then he''d be of some use to you!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 4915 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 37439
Default  Posted: 2:34 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

so sad,

I do agree with the benefactory part

You deserve far better than this!

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

Posts: 818 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 13515
Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

As far as I know I'm still am in his will but I dont think I really want him dead just humble and remorsefull.

Ok, I just realized he would have to be dead to even remotely resemble anything like remorse. LOL

I told him that we are done and he got his xGF to do his bills and such as I refuse to be used by him anymore. I cant control what he does but I do control what I do and it bugs him that he cant control me anymore. Karma bus Karma bus ...beepbeep!

Posts: 1127 | Registered: Feb 2007
Member # 41064
Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday) made me laugh with your Karma statement. Glad to see your WH hasn't taken away your sense of humor!!
My WH's doctor told us last year he has high blood pressure but he never took his meds...I used to worry about this but now I'm glad! Hoping all this takes a toll on his health. Would be a lot cheaper for me than paying a boatload of money for the divorce LOL I hope he keeps up his diet of cheesesteaks and hoagies !

[This message edited by LMomof2 at 9:50 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday)]

Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 6449
Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday)


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"

Posts: 9745 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Member # 40304
Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

I cant control what he does but I do control what I do

That's a good attitude to have.

Me - BH 39
Her - FWW 36
D-Day: 8/13
Working on R

Posts: 301 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
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