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Simple
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

We just had our 13th year wedding anniversary (we've been together 17 years). I found myself silently count that it's our 6th year instead because I feel like that the "real" marriage started when we decided to R. In a way I'm glad I think it's our "6th year wedding anniversary" instead of our "6th year since A was revealed" which I used to count it as. Love, life, and forgiveness is definitely possible after A. I actually feel my marriage is even better than ever. That all that pain and trouble to R was worth it.

Just want to share. Hugs to all of you working on R.

[This message edited by Simple at 5:37 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

(((Simple)))

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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

I love your perspective. Thank you for the hope.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)

Thanks Simple!


If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems. - Joyce Meyer

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