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LadyYoga
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

I went to my yoga class today. Set up my mat, was by the door setting my stuff down and OW walks in, says to the teacher "this isn't a paid class is it?" and laughs. I was speechless. It took everything I had not to let her have it right there in class. I grabbed my mat and walked out crying. My daughter (14) was sitting outside the door clueless and questioning. That bitch had no reason to stay there except to antagonize me. She knows I go to yoga, she knows that's my safe place. She has never been there before. I HATE her! Now I have to see her again shortly as our kids have activities at the community center at the same time. Bad bad day


BS (me) 39
WH 50
DD,DS,DS
D-day 3/11/10 (3 month EA,1 week PA)
Whore was my best friend

Posts: 700 | Registered: May 2010
iwillNOT
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Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

I am so sorry, that is just all kinds of WRONG! What a pathetic b*tch that she has nothing better to do with her time than stalk you! Worthless subhuman whore! ( sorry, projecting a little here).

She's less than the dirt on the bottom of your shoe. Step on her!


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 490 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
Bikingguy
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Member # 38103
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

I would have told her it was a boxing class and let me show you what you missed!


Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013

Posts: 670 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Socal
StepAside
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Member # 29826
Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

"this isn't a paid class is it?"

well of course a whore would need clarification on that, after all there is confusion between Whore and Prostitute. i.e. the 'paid' part

((LadyYoga)) keep your head up, she does not exist for you, and I dare say that fact is the reason why she had her demonstrative moment in yoga class. Poor muffin appears to dislike being a non-entity.


Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs
far too many A's to bother to count, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday April 12/10-Divorcing when he finds some courage
We live in a world where the fear of illusion is real

Posts: 1514 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Ingersoll Ontario
PinkJeepLady
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Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

(((LadyYoga)))
I find this absolutely sacrilegious for her to do this at YOGA!!! The nerve of some people.......
I am so sorry you had to leave like that, beyond unfair!
I wish a "downward dog" right on her A$$, which I am sure is nasty!!!
Ok, let's take a breath and get back to heart center!
This was bad but it will not stop you from doing the yoga you love!
Take care


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 478 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
topperoff22
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Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

It is days like this I am so glad the OW moved ten states away. If she was still local I'd flip the hell out.


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
Mousse242
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Member # 6330
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

Your Dday was 3 years ago, what is the story of what is currently going on? If she is exhibiting behavior for this that many years later you may want to look into filing for harassment for something.

Posts: 5473 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

Ugh. I would fart in her face during downward dog...

Shortly after DD I discovered Numbnuts had referred the OW to our massage therapist. I had to put my face where hers had been.

I no longer think about it and I think she's moved on, but for awhile it REALLLY PISSED ME OFF.

(((LY)))

[This message edited by FaithFool at 7:22 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17313 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
heartache101
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

I agree sounds like harrassment!
Is she a stalker?


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3186 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
LadyYoga
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Member # 28611
Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

She is just so broken. She's unhappy and still plays the victim card. She's a victim because I hacked her email and "bullied" her. Boo hoo


BS (me) 39
WH 50
DD,DS,DS
D-day 3/11/10 (3 month EA,1 week PA)
Whore was my best friend

Posts: 700 | Registered: May 2010
whiteflower99
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Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

Oh my. As a fitness instructor this really posses me off. Actually it puts things in a different perspective as my primary concern (selfish I know) has been whether MY OW would walk in to a class I am teaching knowing I have to be professional...
I can't imagine what I would do if it happened to a participant.
Especially with something that is supposed to be as healing and relaxing as yoga.
Is there any way to let your instructor know what's going on?


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1701 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
LadyYoga
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Member # 28611
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

After I ran to the ladies room, my dd said the instructor came out looking for me. I really did grab my mat and exit fast so I'm sure he was aware something was not right. I could let him know. I'm going to be afraid to go to class from now on :(


BS (me) 39
WH 50
DD,DS,DS
D-day 3/11/10 (3 month EA,1 week PA)
Whore was my best friend

Posts: 700 | Registered: May 2010
whiteflower99
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Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

Ummmm no you aren't. Don't give her that power. This is YOUR sacred space.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1701 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
lynnm1947
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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

Why would you allow her to chase you away from a place you love? Time for the big girl panties. Reclaim that place for you.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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