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whiteflower99
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Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

Ok. So I was (ok still am) in a bit of a funk. I triggered myself by rereading all the texts he sent to this latest ow.

Stupid but oh so me

Anyway, rather than wallow in a puddle of my own tears, let me give the board a hug.

Post one thing you excel at and know you are powerful. I will go first.

I am a kick-@$$ personal trainer and fitness instructor.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1701 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
Karmita
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Member # 40183
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)


I re-read some emails with a few of my close friends. We read them with an English accent and as if we were performing masterpiece theatre.

We ended up on the floor laughing. It was so cliche and so unoriginal as most cheaters are.

It was therapeutic to read it and realize it's just trash and it ain't Shakespeare.

Instead of taking the crap they say to each other seriously begin by seeing it in a different light and see it for was it really is. Trash talk disguised as faux romance.



Posts: 73 | Registered: Aug 2013
iwillNOT
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Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)

I am a connected and loving mom to my kids

And

I do well at my job and help people in a meaningful way every time I go to work.


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 494 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
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