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User Topic: Conga, Conga, Conga... Divorce!
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, October 27th (Sunday)

The sad clown has finally pulled his finger out. Hallelujah!

A long-winded text from the fool. Blah Blah Blah.. Divorce.

FINALLY!

Let him do the running around given how good he is at 'running around'. Let him pay the $800 filing fee.

Let him goad me all he likes. I did take the bait, a bit (I know, I know - kinda like being 'a bit pregnant') but I wasn't mad - it was funny as hell.

Still awesome news.

Divorce here is final one month and one day after the hearing. Everything else is already settled so this is just like cutting the last bees dick of ribbon.

I'd love to send off 2013 legally unencumbered of that sad, sad clown.

Let the party-planning begin! My girlfriends have been inundating me with H-I-L-A-R-I-O-U-S divorce cakes. I didn't even know they existed.

ETA: one of my GFs have suggested there may be some of this kind of dancing involved.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6dUIOfysXo

[This message edited by SBB at 7:57 AM, October 27th (Sunday)]


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, October 27th (Sunday)

Yee haw!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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tesla
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, October 27th (Sunday)

Holy crap! I didn't realize that you weren't divorced yet!!
Well, this is reason to celebrate!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, October 27th (Sunday)

Good for you, SBB.

Your mindset is where I hope to be someday.

Yep, I've heard of Dparties, cakes, presents...people go on cruises, buy fancy cars and new clothes with their "winnings".

It's a good way to think about it.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


Posts: 2134 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, October 27th (Sunday)

Yay!!


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, October 27th (Sunday)

Congrats! Happier times are ahead!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

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HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, October 27th (Sunday)

WOOT WOOT.

Best (hopefully) early Christmas present ever!


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Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, October 27th (Sunday)

Thank you all - I was at the beach with my girls when I noticed the SMS. I did cartwheels on the beach as well as cartwheels in my mind.

Holy crap! I didn't realize that you weren't divorced yet!!

We have to wait for a 12m S before being eligible for D. That was up in July. I think he thought I was going to save him the time, energy and $800. FTG.

buy fancy cars and new clothes with their "winnings".

Our financial stuff was sorted a few months ago so my only 'winnings' are my freedom and healing. Still awesome.

Best (hopefully) early Christmas present ever!

Fingers crossed! Although I think it takes a few weeks to get a hearing date. Still, a girl can dream.

[This message edited by SBB at 3:26 PM, October 27th (Sunday)]


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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