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tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Dunno if I should post this on my popcorn thread or start a new one? Sorry mods, let me know if I'm out of line here.

Ex-shat texted today asking if Teslet was in daycare tomorrow. I haven't texted back yet, not really a priority for me since I told him last Wednesday that we were clearly in disagreement regarding visitation and parenting time, therefore we would revert to the state parenting time guidelines. He gets Teslet tomorrow night for halloween but not till 6 pm.

I just got a text from stripper whore saying that she planned on picking teslet up from school tomorrow at Xam to take him trick or treating with his best friend.

Uh...think that sparkly ring has made her a little bold? Or maybe ex-shat told her this is what is happening (that's my guess).
Whatevs...not my problem.

School knows what is going on. She won't be able to pick him up. If he comes, he won't be able to pick him up.

WTF? He looks like a fool in court and now has to pick a fight he can win? But he won't win this one either.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

OMG, they really are dense. You have it handled, so let them try. As if yesterday's smackdown wasn't enough - wait until tomorrow!


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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Ooooh! I don't think I've had this much popcorn since...well...MY divorce.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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FirstLoveGone
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Oh for fuck's sake! Are you kidding me? Not even one day since court and their "engagement" and they are already stirring the pot.

They really need the validation from you, don't they? Pathetic little souls.

Crickets, Tesla.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

The teacher just called me. Ex-shat emailed her saying that stripper whore is picking Teslet up tomorrow. I told her neither ex-shat nor stripper whore would be picking Teslet up, his parenting time does not start until 6 pm. I will be picking Teslet up from school.
This guy is fucking pathetic.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Lordy, tesla. Sending you strength.


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

AYFKM? What an idiot, or rather duo of idiots....

Glad the school has your back, but it's unfortunate they have to be put in that position because he's such an ass...


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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Wow, really? Really?

Um, didn't we all predict this? That since he was unable to destroy you by stealing your dog, he's going to go for Teslet now?

Maybe you should make double sure that the staff at his preschool/daycare know not to release him to ANYONE but you. Is it time for a codeword?


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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Oh honey, I don''t want to pop pop-corn I want to go out and find fist-sized rocks to hurl at the jackass. My sincere apologies to all jackasses.


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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

The teacher just called me. Ex-shat emailed
Seriously??!! Your ex is such a tool. And apparently not one of the bright, shiny tools, either...


Me - 42
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Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Wow.


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20 years of OWs, WTF?
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Today's story is brought to you by the letters F, T and G.

His escalation is somewhat worrisome given his history of being a crazy fuck. Please be safe.


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Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

How much you wanna bet tomorrow is one day that Disney dad will actually show up to pick up Teslet since it's Halloween?

The good thing about schools and daycares, when people who aren't supposed to pick the kids up show up and they cause a scene or won't leave...they can be arrested.

I'd give him until he's 15 minutes late tomorrow and have a costume for Teslet just in case. I wouldn't bother sending him a message either if he doesn't show up this time. He knows when he's supposed to be there.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 1:23 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Having trouble sleeping tonight. Ex-shat just texted saying when trick or treating began in his neighborhood. Would I have Teslet ready at 5? Looks like he's backing down.

Not going to bother responding till I 'wake up' in the morning. No need for him to know that he's fucking with my sleep.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

The teacher just called me. Ex-shat emailed her saying that stripper whore is picking Teslet up tomorrow.
AYFKM??? AYFKM??? Who the hell do they think they are? My teeth are grinding.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

He keeps sending texts. Why doesn't he learn to shut the fuck up?
He says he's going to start keeping Teslet overnight on Sundays and that I better start looking for a new school for him because he fears it is inadequate. (Teslet attends a parochial school.)
FTG
I need a cup of tea to calm down and get some sleep.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

What a moron. It really bothers me that someone so moronic can still screw up your life and Teslet's life


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Default  Posted: 3:05 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Tesla, Are you sure this guy speaks English? Maybe try translating your messages into Klingon for him.

Turn your phone off.

He gets teslet at 6pm - not a minute sooner. No flexibility whilst he is being a fuckwit.

State parenting time guidelines means he gets teslet at 6pm - no pickups for him even if he does change schools. It would be VERY difficult for him to make you change schools.

I'd say stripperwhore and asshat came up with this strategy given how civil you were with her recently.

Rest up mamma - lack of sleep makes this all so much harder to deal with. Turn your phone off or block him whilst Teslet is with you. I used to forward all of the sad clowns texts/emails to a trusted friend to vet.

We cannot control their fuckery but we can control how much we let it impact us.

Just breathe. He knows he is fucked and will lose the legal battle so he has decided to torment you with this shit.

Stay the course - he'll run out of steam eventually.

((tesla))


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Default  Posted: 5:15 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Oh yeez, I feel panicky just reading your posts- please just don`t let yourself be intimidated by this moron ! Sending you hugs and strength !


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:38 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

SBB - I use my phone as my alarm clock...but your point is well taken...going to get an alarm clock this evening and shut the phone off at night.

He is clearly going to ramp up his behavior until he gets that he is bound by the parenting guidelines. He's whining that I'm actually the only one disagreeing (so he should get his way!) and that I'm making up rules that don't exist

I was hoping this crap would die down after the court date. But I guess I just need to assume that he's going to be like this from here on out.

Okay, I can do this.
Maybe he'll take me to court this time!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

I'm angry for you! Sounds like he got "snipped" in court on Tuesday so he needs to feel like a man/ in control some how. How dare he use teslet as a pawn!

You have been doing a wonderful job of protecting teslet from all the crazy. I know it wears you out. Sending you strength


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Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Ugh.... sounds like we have a little mantrum going on.

Do you have the parenting guidelines/custodial agreement/whatever legal documents are appropriate in electronic form? If not, I would scan them in.

And then, although ignoring as much as possible is the best thing here, you could just highlight the appropriate area in the guidelines/agreement for whatever mantrum he is currently throwing, and e-mail it to him.

I know you are up to handling all this crap from them, but it still sucks!

(((((Tesla)))))

[This message edited by osxgirl at 6:38 AM, October 31st (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

(((Tesla)))Stay strong sister.

Try to keep in mind that he is just like a bad kid that has never heard the word no. It takes continuous consistent same responses about a million and one times to finally get them to realize that No means No, and you are going to follow the rules, no more, no less.


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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

((((((TESLA))))))


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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Strength to you, tesla. ((((hugs))))


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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

I hate to say this because I know how awful he is and how important it is for you to stand up to him but...It's Halloween and Teslet probably would really like to trick or treat at 5 with his best friend. 6 is a late start. :(

Could you text or email saying that he is dead wrong on asking for him early but for Teslets benefit you will allow him to have him an hour early. Or you could bring him at 5:00 and you take him out with his best friend from 5 to 6 and then let him meet you wherever you are trick or treating at 6. Then you hae the fun hour and he gets the cranky, tired, sugar laden kid.

I'm just thinking of Teslet. He doesn't need Halloween to be a tug of war and you know your ex doesn't give a shit. It's all about him.


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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Don't let him bully you. He's an absolute asshole.

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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

It's Halloween and Teslet probably would really like to trick or treat at 5 with his best friend. 6 is a late start. :(
Asswipe Tool's parenting time starts at 6pm. If Tesla is able, she and Teslet can go to a few houses in her neighborhood for an hour or two before the 6pm start time.
Asswipe Tool does NOT get to bully her into dancing to his tune.
No.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Just my opinion, but 6 pm is not too late a start for halloween. Peabrain ex may make a big deal out of "too bad you didn't get to go around with your best friend," but then he's bound to say something knuckleheaded regardless.

Sigh. So sorry you have to deal with this.

Hope he takes you to court...


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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

I totally expected some backlash.

He and SW can't go waltzing into court looking like they wore their Halloween costumes a few days early, lose (and we know he will) and just slink back into their hole.

Nope. They've got to play hardball and put Teslet in the middle, because that's what chicken shit cheaters do.

Stay your course. Take him for an hour elsewhere - or - YOU contact his BFF's parents and do the first hour with them.

Then Soooper Dad! can have him for his court appointed, scheduled visitation.

AJ's MOM


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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Inquiring minds want to know.... Did stripper whore dress up like a Slutty Slut or a Slutty Whore?


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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Inquiring minds want to know.... Did stripper whore dress up like a Slutty Slut or a Slutty Whore?

I'm wondering if she could put a mini stripper pole on wheels (like a medication bag pole in the hospital) and roll it around the neighborhood. Would be perfect for Trick or Treat. She could offer the parents both options.


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

I better start looking for a new school for him because he fears it is inadequate.

Tesla,

Doesn't your decree state that you make all decisions regarding where he goes to school?

Sorry he is making you go through all this drama.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

I'm not concerned about the school thing...the only thing he can really do is stop paying his portion of tuition. The school is 'inadequate' because they won't release Teslet to his stripper or to him any longer because we've reverted to the standard visitation schedule.

So I got caught in texting back and forth with him over the pick up time and this crap about him keeping Teslet overnight on Sunday.

He kept saying "stop interefering with my visitation rights"

I finally reminded myself that this idiot is an utter moron and CANNOT be reasoned with. (Why the fuck do I think he will behave differently???? He's shown me who he is...I need to start treating him like that person.)
So I texted

You misunderstand this [the sunday overnight thing]. I will have my lawyer send you clarification regarding this. We will meet you at my place by 5. There is no interference as I read the guidelines, but feel free to have your lawyer refer these interference allegations to my lawyer.

So, Teslet and I go out for an early dinner. At 4:20 stripper whore calls. She is at my house waiting to pick Teslet up. Oh no, I say, there must be a misunderstanding, the pick up time is 5:00.

Don't you fucking love how *I* am interfering with his visitation rights and he's sending her to pick Teslet up? Anyway, Teslet is expecting dad to pick him up...so disappointment again for him. As we were getting out of the car at 4:58, he says to me - "Mom, why didn't you let dad help you build my swingset?"
I said, "Because your dad doesn't live here. When dad wants to build you a swingset, he will build you one at his place and it will be very nice of him to do that. I won't help him build that swingset because I don't live there."
Teslet says, "Stripper-whore says that you are mean because you wouldn't let daddy help you."

I say, "Well, what do you think about that?"
Teslet: "I told her that was a rude thing to say and that you are not mean."
Sigh, time for another play therapy appointment. This shit is not going to get better.
I thanked him but told him that he doesn't have to stick up for me. That sometimes people say rude things but he and I knew the truth. I'm not sure what else to say to it.

Oh -- and stripper whore was dressed as one of those sluts from the pirates of the carribean. I assume ex-shat is masquarading as captain jack sparrow.


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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Teslet: "I told her that was a rude thing to say and that you are not mean."

I'm glad he didn't let her get away with that. Sad that S-W is putting your sweet boy in that position.


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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Tesla. you might want to consider keeping a copy of your decree on you at all times. If he ever accuses you or involves the police in a custody issue, the police will read and respond to the legal document.


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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

I don't have any active advice, but wanted to say you are not alone here. The XPervert has suddenly become very, very bold and I finally learned that he is shacked up with OW, minimum. My semi-worry is them thinking they could "provide" for DD as they would be "duel" and I would be "one".

There has been similar bullying that you have and it's terrible.


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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Ugh. I am so sorry that you're going through this. It's never enough for them-- they blow apart their families, leave behind all manner of wreckage, seemingly get what they want (AP stays with them, less responsibility because they walk away from the kids and home), and yet... they STILL want more.

I hate these remorseless XWSs who just can't stop their craptastic behavior. Sending hugs to you and your little man.


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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Tesla, Crysallis is right, keep a copy of your decree and the state guidines. From experience, if the police are called they will refer to the legal document.

I am so glad teslet stood up for you. It shows his integrity.

Hugs,
K


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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Fuck me sideways, tesla.

You and I have been through his shit before. He has a second wind right now but he will run out of steam. He'll get used to the fact that he has lost. It's all about acceptance, innit.

Fuck you, stripperwhore - one day this beautiful little boy will know exactly what you are. He is already smarter than you. As a mother to another - shame on you for trying to fuck with him. Fuck.you. You are an affront to the sisterhood and to the motherhood.

My semi-worry is them thinking they could "provide" for DD as they would be "duel" and I would be "one".

@Ash, This fear is unfounded - please don't even entertain it. Two fuckwits don't outrank one mamma in any way, shape or form.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Don't have much to add that hasn't already been said..

BUT.. If you have an iPhone it has a wonderful feature called "Do not disturb" in the settings. I am able to set parameters for when my phone will make noises and when it won't (ringing, texting, other alerts).

HOWEVER!!! It will still play the alarm clock sound, even when no other sounds will play. I can also put the phone on silent, but set the alarm and it will still make noise. I love this feature. My phone is turned off to the outside world between 10pm and 7am. :)


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Kajem, Crysallis -- I actually went out tonight and got a plastic document zipper thingy to keep all that stuff in.

When I picked Teslet up, I found out that ex-shat wasn't there. At. All.
He had his whore come out here and take him trick or treating.

Wow. He really is using Teslet as a pawn. Why was I in denial about that? I asked Teslet how he felt and he said, a bit subdued, "still happy."

I'm so glad that I stuck to my guns about the pick up time.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

And I did go out and get an alarm clock


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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Tesla, you are the epitome of class and restraint. Your ex-shat sounds sooo much like mine right down to the spiteful mantrums, the bullying, and putting the kids in the middle because he knows that this is the way to hurt me. I wish I had handled similar situations like you have.

He is a stupid man-child. Stripper whore is as dumb as a box of rocks. And Teslet is smarter than both of them.

Sometimes I wonder what I did in a past life to be sentenced to a lifetime of this crap.


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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Oh! And speaking of iphones, I wanted to add the lovely feature with the new ios7 of blocking calls/texts. Block that mother-fucker.


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Gawd, I have a feeling that one day he is going to admit in court that stripperwhore does most of the care during his visitation.

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I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

The hardest thing is knowing what to text XWH when I receive texts /ideas/ stupid shit/from him-her...

What I have realized is that he is so stupid sounding, because she is feeding him the words --- remember those kid shows when a friend was feeding the information to another kid with an earplug in their ear connected to a walkie talkie? Yep, that's what's happened to our WXH.

Your response was perfect. I have such a hard time comprehending the crap my XWH says, too!

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 11:23 PM, October 31st (Thursday)]


me BS 52
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children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
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