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homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Venting here,,,,,,


Now I remember why there is NC with XWS!

I texted him asking him to take son to school this week 1DAY so that I show my new employer that I am able to be at work early when necessary.,,, which could lead to a promotion and then XWS wouldn't have to pay as much child support...should be a no brainer for XWS, but I forgot he is missing most of his brain, as it has been sucked out of him by psycho OW....

Yikes,,,,first he said he would take our son only if child could stay overnight (nope, court ordered no overnights with girlfriends), then he said OW would pick up child (nope, court documents say only father shall pick up child), then I get a long text about how I NEED to work with "them" for the benefit of the children and grow up, as her XH has "grown up" and gets along with them now that she has only the best interest of XH and our children at heart.


I started fighting a bit, then I remembered, FTG! I called him to tell him I'll do it myself and the OW answered the phone....ah yes, the spelling was correct on the texts so I should have known.....anyway I hung up on her ass because I have NEVER spoken to her since dday! yay me!

Anyway, I texted XH that I would get son to school, not worth going thru this every time.....

I think I shall take him back to court after Jan 1 as I found out he's getting a huge bonus and raise in NOV!!!!

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 7:50 AM, October 31st (Thursday)]


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2065 | Registered: Jan 2012
She11ybeanz
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Member # 27457
Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

I think I shall take him back to court after Jan 1 as I found out he's getting a huge bonus and raise in NOV!!!!

YOU GO GIRL!!! And, you are right.... FTG!!!!

One of the members of my running group called me to ask me if I cared that MOW had contacted him and was coming to one of our group runs last night (one of which I was not going to anyways cause I just ran a marathon this past Sunday and am being lazy this week). I said....whatever. I don't care. I told him that I will ignore her as I always have and that the only time I would have a problem with her is if she tried to talk to me. (which I would hope she knows better). Although.... for some reason.... I don't want her near my child. Is that strange? Its like protecting your child from a big boa constrictor.... or something.... Sometimes I jog with my jogging stroller but if MOW is going to show up, I will probably just leave my daughter with my sister. Just personal preference. I prefer to have both hands free when I strangle snakes...

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 8:56 AM, October 31st (Thursday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2717 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
homewrecked2011
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Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, October 31st (Thursday)


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2065 | Registered: Jan 2012
Topic Posts: 3