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lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, November 1st (Friday)

Hi everyone,

I've been away for quite a while, and just wanted to let you (those who remember me) know that I'm doing well, and enjoying life again.

I'm not sure how many people from 2008 are still around , and I hope they're all doing well too.

Life is good.

Blessings to all of you.

eta missing words...

[This message edited by lemony.2008 at 11:00 PM, November 1st (Friday)]


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


Posts: 2243 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, November 1st (Friday)

Glad that you are doing well. Thank you for dropping in and letting us know.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49743 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, November 1st (Friday)

That is great!!
Kudos to you and yours...


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, November 1st (Friday)

Hi, lemony!! Nice to "see" you and wonderful to hear you're doing great!

Posts: 10911 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
lemony.2008
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Member # 20125
Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, November 1st (Friday)

Thank you!!

I didn't even realize I was soooooo sad and depressed for soooo long (guess it was hard while I was in the thick of it), I forgot about happiness.

I'm so glad to be able to enjoy life again.

Hi TIKY! How are you?? So happy to see Moo as well, and thank you, GtH, for dropping by, love your screen name.


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


Posts: 2243 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, November 1st (Friday)

Thanks for posting. I guess that R is possible.. Give me hopes thanks


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, November 1st (Friday)

Thanks for posting. I guess that R is possible.. Give me hopes thanks


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, November 1st (Friday)

I'm doing well! It hasn't been a great week. It's actually been pretty awful , but all of that has nothing to do with what brought me here. It's just the 'bumps' life tends to hand out.

I'm still with my H and R has been going well for the last three years.

What did you end-up doing in your situation?


Posts: 10911 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, November 2nd (Saturday)

Hi Dreamland, I'm not in R but life is still good!

TIKY, I really hope the bumps would settle down soon!

As for my situation, I'm still with my H, we have an amicable relationship (friendly, not at all intimate) and it's the best it has been in years! As you know, I have detached from this relationship and it is the best thing I have done for myself. I'm not sure where it is heading but I feel "letting go" is the best remedy for a broken heart. I don't hate him and I do wish him well. I'm rediscovering the joys of life and working hard on myself.

So happy for you and WWS!


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


Posts: 2243 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, November 2nd (Saturday)

Hi lemony. Happy to hear you are doing well and thanks for the update.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 29 years, Happily Reconciled

Posts: 5613 | Registered: Aug 2007
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, November 2nd (Saturday)

Glad to hear things are going well lemony


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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