I tried to R a couple times. I'm with a serial cheater that doesn't want to be labeled. Sorry. That's what you are. Own it!
Even though I thought we Bad come close to a complete R these last few months, I still never felt relaxed. Still never felt like I could trust him, still had anxiety over it when he would leave or be late.
Sorry but R is bull. It is never the same. You try to feel the same as u once did but you won't.
You may trick yourself into thinking that all is ok and THIS IS GREAT !! We made it!!!
It requires someone to compromise more than the other (usually the betrayed has to do all this little extra things consciously if unconsciously)
Your mind will never be at rest and relaxed as it was prior to the A. Sorry to be a downer. I guess I'm in the anger phase. But I've been there. Tried it.
This year I was taken to an early dinner on my bday - even took the kids out of school early so we could go as a family. How sweet right?
No Later I read his texts that he was trying to schedule a ONS around 6pm so that's the reason for the early dinner. I have value. I respect myself. I'm a very good "catch". Why do I sit here still and wonder about if it's possible to R ???