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BAB61
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Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

When I confronted WH and then did the whole NC with OW he agreed. Now I've been checking his e-mail and fb from my computer. Tonight after he went to bed I decided I haven't checked his computer in a few days. So, I'm looking in the history .. it's completely wiped ... nothing is in it, yet he had multiple tabs open. Skype is listed as VERY ACTIVE when you open a tab. I don't know if he skyped her, I actually asked him that today but he denied it, then asked why did I ask him. Hmmmm, now I'm wondering if they switched their Skype routine from late night to early morning. Damnit! I don't believe that he would wipe his history if he wasn't hiding something. I am going to ask him again about Skype tomorrow. I know that you can unblock as easily as you block .. and then block again. I'm not f*king stupid, I just trusted him, since he's a cheating liar, guess that makes HIM a cheating liar. I'm the dupe, but no longer!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
iwillNOT
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Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

Don't say anything, install a key logger program or Velcro a voice activated recorder under the desk.

People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. In other words, wiping the history = hiding something.

If you confront without proof, he will learn to hide better.

((BAB61))


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 512 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

Wiping out history = Red Flag.

Don't ask him he will just deny, deny, deny.

Without question I would hide a VAR and gather proof.

If you confront without proof, he will learn to hide better

^^^THIS


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2124 | Registered: Nov 2011
BAB61
Member
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

Thanks for the advice. I will go install the keylogger now.


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Topic Posts: 4