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momoffive
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Member # 27352
Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

SAWH and I have been sleeping separately for at 10 months now. This last month he told his IC that he finds it difficult to meet my needs/win me back because "we aren't sharing the same bed".

I had reminded him that he did back in the day when we were dating and living in separate homes.
I reminded him that he met OW needs/won her over while they lived separately.
Anyway, I called bullshit on that.

So today he brings me a cup of coffee, which he rarely does anymore and then tries to feel me up and initiate sex. The man has not done what I told him I need from him and then wants sex. I say no. He goes downstairs and I hear cupboard doors closing very loadly.

Here's the irony of it all...

Today is MY birthday. And he acts like that. Makes me want to say that if he really wants to give me a "gift", then start working on meeting my needs and the specific things I told him I need from him.


BW 44, SAWH 45(sorry1)
M24 yrs
DD 23,16,13 DS 21, 19
Dday1-7/3/09 EA OW4
Dday2-9/1/09 PA OW4
Dday3 3/14/10 Farmville sexting, OW3
Dday4 3/13/11 Secret texting, would be OW5-she said no
Dday5 8/2/11 PA 10 years ago OW1, kissing 4 years ago OW2

Posts: 1123 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Pennsylvania
zebra25
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Member # 29431
Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

Happy Birthday!!

Sorry he let you down. Do something nice for yourself.

(HUGS)


Me-BS 40's
Him-WH 40's
D-day April 2010
Married-20+yrs

Posts: 679 | Registered: Aug 2010
Kelany
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Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

Is he in any type of recovery program? Seems like he is still trying to act out. With you.

He does not get it at all.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

Happy Birthday!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2625 | Registered: Jan 2010
momoffive
Member
Member # 27352
Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)

And he didn't even say "happy birthday"...


BW 44, SAWH 45(sorry1)
M24 yrs
DD 23,16,13 DS 21, 19
Dday1-7/3/09 EA OW4
Dday2-9/1/09 PA OW4
Dday3 3/14/10 Farmville sexting, OW3
Dday4 3/13/11 Secret texting, would be OW5-she said no
Dday5 8/2/11 PA 10 years ago OW1, kissing 4 years ago OW2

Posts: 1123 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Pennsylvania
Topic Posts: 5