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cantlivewithouth
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Way to go SI! You guys put up $715 and here is your reward!





Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎


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sadcat
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, November 4th (Monday)

De ja vue


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Oh, Nicely done!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Is this considered "Mommy Porn"?

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 7:23 PM, November 4th (Monday)]


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

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BrokenRoad
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Shutup  Posted: 7:26 PM, November 4th (Monday)


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Those are some fancy shoes, Ser. Nicely played.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, November 4th (Monday)

You guys are all just jealous 'cause I make this look good!


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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BrokenRoad
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Shutup  Posted: 7:38 PM, November 4th (Monday)


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, November 4th (Monday)


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, November 4th (Monday)

You rock those shoes, Ser!!!!!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Good game, guys!

Now I have a modified version of a Chris DeBurgh song stuck in my head...


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cantlivewithouth
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, November 4th (Monday)

I said it's pretty bad that he looks better in that dress than I do. I can't wear it anymore because I'm competing with him.


Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎


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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Hubba Hubba !

Nice shoes, they really complete the look!


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, November 4th (Monday)

My hat's off to you! Well done.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Most disturbing: dude looks better in a dress than I do as well.

Thanks for paying up, Ser. Thanks for being the brave camera lady, cant.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 8:19 PM, November 4th (Monday)]


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, November 4th (Monday)

dude looks better in a dress than I do as well.

Battle-kilt.


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Battle-kilt.
Okay, crazy lady.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, November 4th (Monday)

I'm trying to Google "Battle Kilt with spaghetti straps" and I'm coming up with nothing...


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Exactly my point... they say you can't google Chuck Norris either


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, November 4th (Monday)


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Dude Looks like a Lady! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nf0oXY4nDxE

[This message edited by woundedby2 at 10:26 PM, November 4th (Monday)]


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, November 4th (Monday)


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, November 4th (Monday)

The guys of SI *rock*!!!!

Thank you Ser and JJ for offering a welcome weekend distraction. I thoroughly enjoyed watching the chess game and thread comments (even though I didn't always understand what was going on... )

And can't.....that's a kick-ass dress. Re-claim it!


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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Laura28
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Default  Posted: 3:29 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)

SerJR

Darling you look GORGEOUS!!!!

That dress is to die for and the colour is perfect!!


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 3:45 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)


I told you he was a pretty boy!
That sound you heard was all the SI guys dropping their man-card.

Good sport, Ser!

Maybe wearing the battle-kilt next time while you play might give you an edge?
...something to think about...


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 3:56 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)

Also, notice the pic in heels - the left hand is holding a railing for balance
...and I swear those dogs are like;
"Whud?" & "Hahahaha"
"That's not mommy!"

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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 5:03 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)

Dude... it ain't holding the railing, it's clenched on for dear life


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)

Did we *forget* a little something, first??

Hmmmm???


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)

You guys are just beyond awesome!!!!! Thank you so much!!

SerJR...you look fabulous!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)

Oh.

That's.

Something.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, November 5th (Tuesday)

Awesome, SerJR. You look mahvelous!! I need to download them - you know - for *those* times!

[I have no idea what that means, but it's just something that popped into my mind while looking at those photos!! My mind is going I need sleep....]

You guys are such great sports to provide SI with a fun (and profitable) weekend. And NG, of course! and others for hilariously helping to fill the lulls. Like gonna, I often didn't know what was going on in the game, but it was fun.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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Bigger
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, November 5th (Tuesday)

I wish MH would put a preview button on threads. Could have saved me the misery of seeing Serjr in a dress.


"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, November 5th (Tuesday)

bigger's a bich

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, November 5th (Tuesday)

maybe he's the 'next bich' I dunno.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, November 5th (Tuesday)

??

??


??


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, November 6th (Wednesday)

Sorry razzy - was just stirring things up...
Cutie Yorkie!!!!

World Chess Championship begins this week!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Chess_Championship_2013

Can be seen here:

http://chennai2013.fide.com/


Posts: 6423 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, November 6th (Wednesday)

Oh my, name calling again!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 2:48 AM, November 14th (Thursday)

What a great sport!
Bravo!!!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:07 AM, November 14th (Thursday)

Didn't your wife wear that to my wedding? These images are all the more disturbing when I've actually seen the dress on a girl.

Well thank you for doing this for S.I. You guys are great

But I think Rebreather said it best...

Oh.

That's.

Something.




“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, November 14th (Thursday)

SER, really, I could use that dress for my upcoming show. LOL. I just belatedly backed you with $25.00.

Everyone, I don't think it's too late to still pay up for the Great Canadian-American Chess Game.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, November 14th (Thursday)

I said it's pretty bad that he looks better in that dress than I do.

Ummm.. just no. You looked lovely in that dress. He looks like a man in your dress.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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