User Topic: venting here instead
Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, November 5th (Tuesday)

email to hubby:

I hate the fact that i can't separate the new you from the you that abused me for 4 months. I hate this.
I hate that you compared a kid stealing from a store to what happened. That was an insulting deflection. If I can't talk about this sometimes this is going to be a long recovery. I'd like to "make an appointment" with you for Saturday or Sunday morning, if that works for you......

I hate all the f&cking accommodating I have to do - talk to me at a certain time but I'd rather not talk at all, allow me to work in (town where both OW work), yes, we still need to live here.
Eff that sh!t.

his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”

Posts: 5283 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 38391
Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, November 5th (Tuesday)

Good job doing it here. I did the opposite last night and now regret it.


D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

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