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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, November 9th (Saturday)

I had a nice conversation about pastries, etc.

It felt good to have a possible Friendship in my Moving Forward.

He was engaging, humorous, and easy on the eyes despite being nearly 8 years older.

We exchanged phone numbers and I had a good 2 hour chat w/ him today. No more online dating stuff for me ------> E ver.

The conversation was lively and honest. To the point that we can only be friends, nothing more, nor am I seeking out a new H.

Just imagine...while looking at pastries.

My D will be final in 3 weeks....relief!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25425 | Registered: Sep 2005
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, November 9th (Saturday)


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, November 9th (Saturday)

I love hearing this!!!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, November 9th (Saturday)

Thanks for posting great stories like this!

It gives those of us who haven't yet started our NB hope!

So happy for you - enjoy!!!!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, November 10th (Sunday)

That sounds lovely!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15193 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
jjct
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Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, November 10th (Sunday)

Pastries, ETCETERA?

Look at those buns, hun
See how they sugar and shine,
I'd like to take a lick oops look at that,
if they were only mine...

A swirling earlysweet drizzle,
so soft and warm on my tongue,
and doughysoft oft on mind's palate,
the hell! Pasties make me feel young!

A squeeze for your cakes of the roundmound,
slurp sounds coming close to your ear,
donut think I think this way public too much,
it cakes all kinds of crazy I fear.

We knead to get out more happy,
fruitfilling some fresh nutty dreams,
when warm from the oven a heartfeels,
the scents so pleasing mind beams!


Posts: 6534 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
cmego
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Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, November 10th (Sunday)

How fun!!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4112 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Take2
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, November 10th (Sunday)

at jjct: talk like that will start a riot on the bus!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
dreamlife
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Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, November 10th (Sunday)

jj...you are quite the naughty lil poet!

yes, and prior to the pastries, I had a short chat with another gent in the meat dept over cooking pork roast!
When we verbally traded recipes and methods...he slow cooked his w/ a pkt of "seasoning" while I roast mine after studding it with sliced fresh garlic cloves & Italian herbs, etc and et al...he told me:
"Why you are ruining it"!!!
Well, I knew right then and there that he was not gonna be any **New Friend** of mine!

Live and learn...

Sorry about the smilie emoticon screwing up in my first post.

Hmmm...maybe I should go wander around some computer shops?

Techs are just so very...interesting!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25425 | Registered: Sep 2005
numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, November 10th (Sunday)

Oh my, jjct!!!! Hysterical - you are quite the poet!

I think you got a little carried away and let your true intentions be known when you substituted "pasties" for "pastries," though.

And, since "pasties make me feel young," will you soon be posting pictures of yourself in pasties?!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
dreamlife
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Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, November 10th (Sunday)

Clever, n&n!

And a great fund raising idea for SI!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25425 | Registered: Sep 2005
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, November 10th (Sunday)

I'm up for it - even after arguing with r's...
If pastries start a riot, can you guys imagine the meat dept?
I AIN'T GOIN THERE

We can't have the bus breakin down...

Posts: 6534 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
dreamlife
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Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, November 11th (Monday)

Oh, groan....I think I just slipped a disc while
It was great to come from my doc appt and read this!
(As she eats her vegetarian dinner... )


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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