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notwarmorfuzzy
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Member # 37868
Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, November 12th (Tuesday)

One year ago today my world came crashing down on me....DDay! where am I a year later? Well I've been through such a rollercoaster. I decided to divorce and that was tough, I've been up and down, it still pains me if I allow myself to think about my past too much. I still cry... I still mourn what was once my 20 year marriage... one baby step at a time. I became best friends with the OW boyfriend... and actually I would consider him more than just a friend he's so understanding. But I'm guarded... and still healing... for those who want to know where youll be at in a year... it's still painful, just not as bad, youre still in mourning but I've accepted this is my new reality and need to make the best of a horrible situation. This week leading up to the one year mark has been super hard, emotional and overall heavy on my heart. But it's here now... TaDaaaa... I survived a year!!!! and that alone I am thankful for...

me-BS-39
WH-39
M-20 year
2 kids 20&17, my 20yo is expecting her 1st baby
Dday 11/12/2012-the day the veil was lifted
Divorce final 3/10/2013


Posts: 35 | Registered: Dec 2012
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, November 12th (Tuesday)


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7571 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
BrokenSpirit50
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Member # 34485
Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, November 12th (Tuesday)

Dear notwarmorfuzzy, congratulations for having the courage to survive the year 1. It amazes me how fast time flies. In one month It will be 2 years since the end of my 32 year M and the beginning of my new still unchartered life. Blows my mind.

Take care.


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, November 12th (Tuesday)

Congratulations. I have survived one year of separation and most recently one year anniversary of him moving out. Life is not easy but full of opportunities and peace of mind, emotionally, spiritually and financially.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1247 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
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