SurvivingInfidelity.com Forums
Divorce/Separation
User Topic: DD17 really gets it...
Phoenix1
Member
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, November 14th (Thursday)

We were chatting late into the night last night, as we often do, and the subject of her father came up. She refers to him as either her "biological father" or "he who shall remain nameless." She was talking to me about a conversation she had with her older brother regarding some things XPOS was sending to DS, but he would only send it to DS in a way such that "your mother" (me) would not be able to touch it. Juvenile, yeah I know. Anyway, DD said he had told her similar things in the past, i.e., I will give you this but I don't ever want your mother to have it. DD said, without a bat of an eye, "He is the one that cheated on you all those years, but he wants to act like YOU did something wrong when everyone knows it was him. I guess he needs to blame someone else because he couldn't keep it in his pants." Bingo! I told her he will likely continue to blame me, and that's okay because I know the truth and that is all that matters. She responded, "Mom, we ALL know the truth."

Love that kid...

Oh, and the things he is trying to send DS in such a way that I won't touch them? Well, DS will be moving back home when he gets out of the military next summer and all those sacred "things" will be coming right back to my house...and XPOS knows he will be living with me... childish idiot...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 952 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
tesla
Member
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, November 14th (Thursday)

What a great kid!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4537 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Gemini71
Member
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, November 14th (Thursday)

Wow. What great kids. Obviously take after their mother.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1509 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Lost15
Member
Member # 40898
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 15th (Friday)

What a great kid! I don't know that mine completely understands it but I have told him that likely wen he has his own family one day he will understand. As much as I would like to say what a douche his father is I don't. I just say he is still your father.


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 112 | Registered: Oct 2013
Topic Posts: 4