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User Topic: OW
Member # 36126
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

What to do when the OW is insecure and makes it your issue?

I am staying strong but I think I am more in shock!

Wasn't this suppose to be what the universe wanted for them to live in marital bliss?

I just don't get it

Posts: 1009 | Registered: Jul 2012
Dark Inertia
Member # 30727
Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

How is she making it your issue?

"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1284 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

What is she doing to cause you a problem?

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 6:39 PM, November 17th (Sunday)]

Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2713 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 36126
Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

She has started to interject herself into my child's phone conversations with me.

I really don't feel the need to hear her voice.

I just don't get it!

Posts: 1009 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

You're not being clear. From what you've written, it sounds like perhaps when you're talking to your daughter when your daughter is over there, the OW listens and adds her commentary that you hear in the background? Does she tell DD what to say? Is she intimidating DD so DD doesn't feel free to talk to you Does she grab the phone & talk to you? What is it she's doing?

Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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