Topic: I did really well in my placement tests!
Member # 32554
| Posted: 5:13 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
I took my college placement tests today. The results were what I thought they would be. I totally rocked the reading & writing segments (99% and 97%), and completely bombed the math section (43%).
So now I need to go through orientation & get some class assignments.
And I had a phone screen today which I felt really good about, although I've learned to put zero stock in how I feel about phone screens.
Anyway, I made a HUGE stride in my New Beginning. Yay me!!!
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 8403 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 36784
| Posted: 5:49 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
Way to go!!! You're on your way now. Brighter things ahead!
Divorced Jan 2013
"Don't look back, the road is long."
Posts: 207 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: IL
Member # 30346
| Posted: 5:59 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
congrats! Isn't it cool to find out we are we are smart? It has kinda shocked me at how well I'm doing in grad school!
me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 40, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
Posts: 3443 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Member # 39451
| Posted: 6:18 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
Must felt good after all the things you went through, good to get the confident back!
M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 8 months
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS has been chatting and flew/met many times with a Philippine girl (20 yrs younger)
Divorcing.... Sep.Agreement finalized on Oct 18
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken hea
Posts: 133 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 35619
| Posted: 6:33 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
D final 8/2012
Posts: 3308 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Member # 33606
| Posted: 6:49 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
Yay, NG. And not surprising to you or anyone else!
Posts: 1382 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 3903
| Posted: 6:52 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
After all this time I finally know that none of this was about me or some deficiency I brought to the marriage. He was the one with the problem.
Posts: 1406 | Registered: Mar 2004
Member # 34477
| Posted: 7:03 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
[This message edited by courageous at 7:05 PM, November 18th (Monday)]
Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.
Posts: 499 | Registered: Jan 2012
Member # 29410
| Posted: 7:08 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
Yeah, Nature-Girl! That's great!! I'm sure you will rock your classes!
Posts: 1009 | Registered: Aug 2010
Member # 38928
| Posted: 7:37 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
Congrats NG! I am glad you are taking pride in your positive steps forward! Keep up the momentum!
BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994? - never stopped
Kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 2013!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare
Posts: 775 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Member # 20150
| Posted: 7:46 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
School is great, it keeps the brains busy and after so many months/years of focussing on the shit we're putting behind us, it's actually pleasurable to accomplish those goals.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth
Posts: 16480 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 35912
| Posted: 10:25 PM, November 18th (Monday)|
Posts: 393 | Registered: Jun 2012
Member # 27454
| Posted: 12:14 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Having read your posts I for one am in no way surprised by your 97% writing mark!!!!!
I can see your confidence and self esteem returning in spadefuls.
So glad you did not let your crazy ex destroy you.
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.
Posts: 717 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
Member # 37455
| Posted: 12:29 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone
Posts: 1783 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 20849
| Posted: 5:53 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
D-Day July 10, 2008
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 14863 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 30341
| Posted: 7:48 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
(Your phonescreens sound a lot like my first dates )
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Posts: 2754 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Member # 15584
| Posted: 8:40 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
This is so exciting! I'm happy for you!!!
It took me a minute to realize what you meant by phone screen...for a job, right? At first I thought you meant a literal phone screen and I didn't understand why you'd put stock in a phone screen.
happiness is a direction, not a place.
Posts: 3862 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:43 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
You can call me NIK
"Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in." -Cohen
Posts: 21846 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 33882
| Posted: 8:45 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
him (NPD Ex)
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2434 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 7767
| Posted: 9:07 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
Posts: 7525 | Registered: Aug 2005
Member # 32616
| Posted: 9:45 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Posts: 2869 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Member # 38405
| Posted: 9:54 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
Posts: 604 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Northeast US
Member # 25144
| Posted: 10:00 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Woo Hoo! You're on your way to an exciting new future!
Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!
Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Member # 36697
| Posted: 10:18 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Way to go!
Posts: 1264 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Member # 34697
| Posted: 6:46 PM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Woo-hoo, NG! Onward and upward!!
Posts: 4037 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 27035
| Posted: 8:56 PM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Great job! You can do this!
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."
Posts: 4520 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 34525
| Posted: 10:14 PM, November 19th (Tuesday)|
Congrats, NG!!!! I can feel lots of good karma coming your way!
Hope you celebrated today!
BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
Member # 35229
| Posted: 5:50 AM, November 20th (Wednesday)|
If things start happening, don't worry, don't stew, just go right along and you'll start happening too. -Dr Seuss
Posts: 4135 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 17460
| Posted: 6:47 AM, November 20th (Wednesday)|
I am so excited for you and proud of you!
For the record, that's probably how I would have placed.
Me + math = disaster!
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!
Posts: 20846 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Member # 40229
| Posted: 2:14 PM, November 20th (Wednesday)|
I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
Posts: 1642 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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