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User Topic: wth is wrong with mow!
Lost15
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Member # 40898
Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

I don't know why I care but it has bothered me from the very beginning. MOW and STBXH met only weeks before she just up a disappeared one day. She is in her 40's, has been married for 21 years, has three teenage daughters, an adopted special needs 5 year old, and was a school teacher and coach in her community. How do you just up and leave all of that for someone you met in a bar a few weeks earlier? STBXH was working in another state, so she moved into a hotel with him for 2 months before moving into my home. She seems like a piece of work. stbxh and mow are very selfish people. They have just abandoned their spouses and their children without any remorse. She is claiming her husband was abusive, but I don't really believe it, and honestly why would I give a fuck. That is what stbxh said to me also, I thought so I'm suppose to be happy you saved her, your her hero asshole. That makes me feel so much better, in that case go have fun. She text me a month ago about how her husband was and I replied then why would you leave your 4 children with him if he was so horrible? Her answer was don't judge me, you know nothing about me. Well I know your a fucking whore who abandoned your family and tore my family apart, ruining 5 kids lives and 2 spouses for a POS loser who couldn't keep it in his pants. She hasn't even tried to see her children. Her oldest is now in the role of mother, helping to take care of everyone. I just don't understand this person. I don't get either one of them. She moved into my family's home, with my things, my son's things and sleeping in my bed with my husband. What kind of person does that! It feels as though she has taken over my life. Luckily, I live 12 hours away and have yet to meet this whore.


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 114 | Registered: Oct 2013
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

There's so much wrong with her, we'd need a book and a Ph.D to get it all.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9458 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Gemini71
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Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

These are selfish people with no empathy for others. Basically sociopaths. Broken found broken. You deserve so much more.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1622 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Thefly559
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Member # 40268
Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Dam I am sorry. I wish I knew wtf was wrong with these people. They are so screwed up. There are so many of them. You are so much better. We are so much better ! I know that doesn't take away the pain but stay strong you are not alone.


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 622 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
wontdefineme
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Member # 31421
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

It is people like this that keep Dr. Phil in business!


Posts: 2157 | Registered: Mar 2011
Lost15
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Member # 40898
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

I honestly want her no where near DS, but he is almost 15 and can make this decision for himself (I guess his father would actually have to see him first). I just feel like if mow could abandon her own children the way she has, how do I know what she will do with DS. I think they both have lost their sanity. I believe she is using stbxh for whatever reasons. It doesn't excuse his behavior, nor his actions and behavior now, but I feel she has some type of hold on him. I just can't understand it. What mother leaves her children and a small community that loved and respected her?! You couldn't offer me enough to leave DS behind the way she has and the way stbxh has.


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 114 | Registered: Oct 2013
Topic Posts: 6