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SandAway
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

I work at a used book store and I grabbed some books that I know can be helpful here on SI.

If you would like any of the books listed below, send me a PM and I am happy to snail mail it to you.

After the Affair
His Needs Her Needs x 2
The Five Love Languages

*I will update this list as I send them out*

If anyone has any good recommendations, let me know and I can keep an eye out for them too!!

[This message edited by SandAway at 2:57 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)]


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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atsenaotie
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

Sexual Detours by Holly Hines really helped me.


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Separated and Divorcing

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SandAway
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Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, November 27th (Wednesday)

Updated books


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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TheAgonyOfIt
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, December 16th (Monday)

I think anything by Pema Chodron is really useful to help people deal with out of control emotions. Mindfulness as a topic in general can be helpful, although it is a challenge.

Sometimes I think we, myself very included, spend too much time with the Affair books. Or rather, maybe we just have to graduate from the Affair books and into books that nourish US and help us grow as people, regardless of Affair. Books that put focus back on us.

That's been true for me anyway! If I stay enmeshed in Affair literature, and I absolutely think I needed to be there for a while, but i realize that now I really need to Move On or I will suffocate.

Just thoughts! : ) Thanks for your kindness.

[This message edited by TheAgonyOfIt at 8:02 PM, December 16th (Monday)]


Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Now homeless but getting it together. Necessary but difficult(!) transition! Sad sad sad but hopeful.

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