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dlmos
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

On December 1st I will be moving into my own apartment! I'm glad I've been able to stay with my parents over the last year but for the first time in my life I am going to have a place all of my own. Moving in should take all of 5 minutes since I basically just have to hang my clothes and and throw some beer in the fridge but I'm really excited!


BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

Woohoo! Congrats on this very important next step of your NB!


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

Congrats dlmos!


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

YAAAAAAAAAY!!!! How exciting!!!

Good luck on your new adventure! (Don't forget that beer! )


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

Congrats! Every step in the right direction feels good!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, November 22nd (Friday)

Dlmos....congrats!!!!! You have worked hard for this. I am really happy for you.


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stronger08
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Default  Posted: 3:19 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)

Excellent !!!!!


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:48 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)

Awesome step!


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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)

Congratulations dlmos!!!


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Posts: 3333 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)

WOOWHOO!!

The day I signed the lease on my own place I realised that this was the first time I ever lived alone. I lived with my mum, then with flatmates then the sad clown.

It.Rocks.


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dlmos
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)

Thanks everyone, I'm really excited about it Having to come up with the money for rent, utilities, etc is a bit nerve wracking but I know I can afford it. I'm so glad to finally be moving forward


BH (32)
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Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas
Dawn58
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)

Congrats on moving forward!!! Awesome!


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, November 23rd (Saturday)

How exciting!!!! That year went by quick!


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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, November 23rd (Saturday)



There is life on the other side of hell.

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whatdoto
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, November 23rd (Saturday)

The feeling of having your own place is exhilirating for
Sure. I bought my home Oct 7th and am pretty
Stoked.

Congrats!!!


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, November 23rd (Saturday)

Post 3,000 is for you:

Congratulations!


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Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 6:26 AM, November 24th (Sunday)

dlmos,

Congratulations, and thanks for the thread--it's just what I need to read as I have been on the fence about selling the marital home and moving to my own place. Your enthusiasm gives me that extra nudge in the right direction!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, November 24th (Sunday)

since I basically just have to hang my clothes and and throw some beer in the fridge but I'm really excited!
Boy, that TX g2g really change you, didn't it?

Seriously, good luck with your NB! I'm happy for you!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, November 24th (Sunday)

Boy, that TX g2g really change you, didn't it?

I had the same thought AN. We corrupted him.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3333 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
dlmos
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, November 24th (Sunday)

Lol, I would definitely say yall had an impact!

It is going to be a heck of a first month though as all I own is a bed and TV, lots of shopping to do.


BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, November 24th (Sunday)

Long time no see, dlmos. Glad to hear from you again.

Congratulations on the new place!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, November 24th (Sunday)

Nothing like getting your own place.

After five moves in as many years and selling/buying two houses and a condo, I finally settled on the beautiful heritage rental apartment of my dreams.

It's the first place without any connection to the past, and it is so very healing.

You're going to love it.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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