My WW is in complete agreement with me and I appreciate her support so much.
Thank goodness she agrees! Most WSs use it as a weapon.
I echo the other posters' sentiments - fire her incompetent, quacky self.
When looking for an IC/MC, we interviewed a few and found one who specialized in infidelity. You and your wife will need to do some research, but it is so worth it in the long run.