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AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, November 29th (Friday)

And i woke with the lyrics of Black Peter running through my head...

See here how everything
Lead up to this day
And it's just like any other day
That's ever been
Sun going up and then
The sun going down
-Grateful Dead


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2599 | Registered: Aug 2012
forgivingnow
Member
Member # 33549
Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, November 29th (Friday)

And it's just like any other day...

except better, right? Because the two of you are moving forward to a much better place...


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 614 | Registered: Oct 2011
FightingBack
Member
Member # 34770
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, November 29th (Friday)

Chico,

My 2nd antiversary is today also.

In a way I can't believe two years have gone by, yet it makes sense in relation to how I'm feeling.

The pain is obviously not as intense. No one could survive that for two years. The downs are less frequent and I can rebound quicker. I am stronger, more hopeful and more self confident.

I am beginning to see things in a more positive light.

The journey isn't over, but it is getting easier to travel.

With year 2 behind us, things can only get better. Right?


Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

Posts: 774 | Registered: Feb 2012
MovingUpward
Guide
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, November 29th (Friday)

I hope today is a great day for you and broevil


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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