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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, November 29th (Friday)

Today, I received another call from a collection agency- they were looking for wxh.

I swear to god, it's continuous.

I recently switched my number to a listed number, and it's been pretty steady since then. This collection guy told me that wxh is still using my address as his residence, but he hasn't lived here for over 5 years.

Helpful chick that I am, I gave his parent's phone number to the collection guy.

Fucking jagoff.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7420 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, November 29th (Friday)


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7683 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, November 29th (Friday)

I used to give the collections folks TwatWaffle's number. She wanted him, she could have him.

All of him, including the part that was and is in collections.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29540 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
Skan
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, November 29th (Friday)

If this is a landline, can you put an answering machine on it and as part of the message, have "if you are a collection agency calling for XPOS, here is the current phone number for contact. Nail his ass to the wall."


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4557 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, November 29th (Friday)


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9245 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
jemimapd
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, November 29th (Friday)

Helpful chick that I am, I gave his parent's phone number to the collection guy.

I must remember that one.

Except in my case, all my ex's financial problems are actually my fault because I didn't give him enough money in the divorce.


Jemima Puddleduck is a trusting soul....
DD 1 Dec 2012; Divorced 11/13; 2 children
Me: BS (47) Him: WH (52) Her: 3 PA's
Ex bought a house, The Money Pit With Mold That Will Never Be Finished. He's living in the basement.

Posts: 726 | Registered: Dec 2012
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, November 29th (Friday)

A couple of weeks ago, I checked my caller I'd, and there were tons of numbers that I didn't recognize. I then forwarded my house phone to my cell so I could figure out who is calling me.

I've been ever so helpful to the people trying to find him, so I hope the calls slow down a bit.

Yeah, it's my fault because he "gave" me the house that I've been paying for. Actions, meet consequences.

Jagoff


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7420 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
sparkysable
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Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, November 30th (Saturday)

When they used to call me, I used to give them his number, and OW's number for good measure. Hey, I'm just trying to help


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3164 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

I feel like you should be able to send him some sort of cease and desist to stop using your address. Jaggoff.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Snapdragon
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

The connections never really end. A DECADE after my divorce and change of address twice, and change of my last name, I got a call from a collection agency looking for my ex-husband's brother! I had to explain that I hadn't been part of that family for a DECADE! The person was quite lovely, actually.


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


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