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Lola7
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Member # 41195
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, November 29th (Friday)

Facebook is a treasure trove of information. As I previously stated in other threads, I outted the affair to the OW's husband. She immediately blocked me, so I can't really see what she's doing. But with my other account, I can see that her husband's entire family and friends have removed her. This has got to be at least 50 people.

That means she will be coming at my STBXH to make their love official. Good luck with that bitch. I cannot wait for the next few months to roll out.

A few days ago, in between telling me he wanted her, and was so sorry for destroying us and wanted me to wait to file, he also said he wanted to see other people. So she's pretty much in for the ride of her life with a man that said she had "bad skin" and wasn't even that hot.

This is actually past the border of Sad right into the city of Absurd.

Quick: Let's take bets as to how long before I get that apology I wanted two seconds ago? I'm going to wager within the next 30 days, STBXH is going to look at this shit storm and make a play for me and the homestead.

Fuck off. I'll be at the gym.


caelitus mihi vires
"My strength is from heaven"
DIVORCED!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Nov 2013
sleepless34
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Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, November 29th (Friday)

Awesome! He should think long and hard about "be careful what you wish for, you might just get it"

It would be beautiful for them both to get what they derserve. I bet that will do wonders for her skin....



Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 443 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
DazedWI
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Member # 41432
Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, November 30th (Saturday)

Lola, I did the same thing outing my WW on Facebook earlier this week and she summarily blocked all of my family and the friends that we shared due to her shame/embarassment. I even had one of her aunt's message me yesterday saying that I should not use social media to gain sympathy/etc and I should get professional help. Considering my WW still has not gone to therapy and I have since I confronted her and OM a month ago, she is a little nuts in the head. Be careful when seeing your WH as my WW verbally attacked me on Monday prior to our temp order hearing because I wouldn't acknowledge she was there. I stayed calm during the entire confrontation and it made her even more upset! I then stared at her the entire time and it made her so uncomfortable that she lost composure in the hearing! Remember calmness is the best way to respond when confronted and the WS will always realize what they gave up. Just not in time to do anything about it.


ME (29) - BS
Her (29) - STBXWW
Dday - 10/25/2013
Married - 7/2007
Been Together - 9/2003

Posts: 83 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Midwest
Lola7
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Member # 41195
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

@Dazed; Well I didn't out them ON Facebook. I found out who her husband was and emailed him and we spoke on the phone the next day. That's when I told him his wife and my husband were going at it. I have been quiet as a mouse on Facebook.

When he told his wife that I notified him of the affair with my husband, that's when she blocked me. I'm only able to see that her husband's family/friends has dumped her left and right because I can see their friend list. If that makes sense.

It's crickets over here. I'm not contacting my SBTXH or her at all.


caelitus mihi vires
"My strength is from heaven"
DIVORCED!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Nov 2013
careerlady
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Member # 16958
Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

It''s fun to see these kings of things happen, especially when you haven''t taken any sort of revenge for yourself. Good for you, they should get their just desserts.

As for the bet I''d give him a week or 2


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

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