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BoardPearl
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

Hi everyone,

I hope you all are well.

I'm very worried about my youngest son. He was truant from school sixty days last year and it has started again. He has been home the last three weeks.

He is a good student, with no behavioral problems. When he actually goes to school, the teachers think everything is ok because he does what he is supposed to do.

Believe me, I have tried everything.


I have also given it to God and I know that it helps, but I'd like to ask for your prayers.

We have severe cases of bipolar disorder and schizophrenia in my family on my father's side and I worry about my children, as I know it can be genetic.

Thanks in advance.


Posts: 1114 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Europe
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

You have my prayers and good thoughts.

Has he been evaluated?


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

Saying prayers and sending good thoughts.

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HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

Definitely will keep your son and you in my prayers. Such a tough age.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2659 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
BoardPearl
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Member # 25463
Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

Thanks, everyone.

Authenticnow, no he has not been evaluated. He doesn't like our doctor. This doctor saved my life, literally, but he is too blunt and honest for my son. DS14 doesn't dare to go to him anymore because it's uncomfortable for him to be confronted. I assume that is why.

In this country, we have to go through a doctor first if we want a psychiatrist subsidized by the state or district. My father has offered to pay though, so I know I could go the other route.

I am exhausted.

I have issues with DS16 as well, but the storm is calm there currently (there have been meetings after meetings throughout the years). He was arrested a couple of months ago for smoking hashish.


Posts: 1114 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Europe
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

(((((boardpearl))))) Sending you strength, honey. And keeping good thoughts for both your DSs.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

((((BoardPearl & DSs))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
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