So my xwf and I are over. Too much damage and it's no way to start a marriage. The lies are to much! I have to tell my dd and it's killing me! Is she going to hate me ? He is not her father. We d when she was 1. He is very much in her life. I guess I have already been down the trauma road of d and do not wish to visit it again. My xwf gave me a giant pile of crap to digest and I can't. He was on CL for 2 yrs of our 3 yr relationship. That's way to risky. He was looking for both men and women. He did take lie test and passed but the lies r too much!
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Gemini71 Member Member # 40115
Posted: 9:54 PM, December 2nd (Monday)
Your DD will not hate you forever. She may be angry for a while, especially since it's not appropriate for her to know the whys behind your decision. Remember, you are not responsible for your DD's pain, XWF is. This is the natural fall our of HIS actions.Edited to correct stupid typos.
Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.
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Oftencheatedon Member Member # 41268
Posted: 10:20 PM, December 2nd (Monday)
She should hate him forever and learn never to be with a man like that.