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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday)

3 weeks ago, a guy that I know asked me to go out to a steelers game. I declined because I knew that he would expect something in return.

He's been calling me periodically for the past 4 years. We catch up, he asks if I've been seeing someone. Every time, I say that I am, because I'm not interested in him.

Today, I found out that he recently got married. Really?? 3 weeks ago, he was trolling me.

My faith in mankind takes another step back.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7420 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Must Survive
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Member # 34533
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday)

The longer I am on SI, the more I realize it will be my dog and I that fade into the sunset.

I am soooooo jaded now.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." ó Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 658 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday)

Oh yuck!!! Sorry!
Maybe there was a reason that you always told him you were involved with someone?

I congratulate you on your wonderful radar. You dodged a bullet.
Prayers for the new wife.


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1584 | Registered: Mar 2004
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday)

The longer I am on SI, the more I realize it will be my dog and I that fade into the sunset.

Substitute cat for dog......and this!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2605 | Registered: Jan 2010
cmego
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Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, December 4th (Wednesday)

I might drop a FB message to his new wife...


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4008 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

To date, my brother and my dog have been the only men in my life that have always had my back.
I know good men, I do, but they are married or been so badly abused, that they are still healing.
This crap sucks!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2141 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, December 6th (Friday)

The longer I am on SI, the more I realize it will be my dog and I that fade into the sunset.

Substitute cat for dog......and this!

Change to 4 cats and a dog, and .... this!


Me: BW (54)
Him: WH (61)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1803 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
Helen of Troy
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Angry  Posted: 9:12 AM, December 6th (Friday)

I found out that he recently got married. Really?? 3 weeks ago, he was trolling me

Block block block!
WHAT AN ASS!


Posts: 4677 | Registered: Dec 2009
NaiveAgain
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Member # 20849
Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, December 6th (Friday)

Disgusting but I am not shocked by anything anymore. I'm pretty sure I am going to end up alone with my menagerie.


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15095 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, December 6th (Friday)

Update for yinz guys:

Apparently, his new wife and step child moved out after 2 whole weeks of marriage.

So, it looks like he may have a ticket for this week's Steeler game after all....

Yeah, I don't think I'll be that polite person and answer the phone if he ever calls me in the future.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7420 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, December 6th (Friday)


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15095 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, December 6th (Friday)


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, December 7th (Saturday)

Wow, two whole weeks? There's some healthiness for you.

Looks like you gots good radar skilz.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4542 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
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