New Beginnings
User Topic: First post in NB
Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

Hi friends!!
I am so sorry to be in the crappy club but am determined to thrive as well as survive! Just dropping in to say hello and stick my toe in the pool

40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller

Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.

Posts: 13753 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

Welcome to NB, Triple.

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15393 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 37895
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

I think it is an enormous infinity pool with warm water overlooking the ocean and surrounded by palm trees.

Jemima Puddleduck is a trusting soul....
DD 1 Dec 2012; Divorced 11/13; 2 children
Me: BS (47) Him: WH (52) Her: 3 PA's
Ex bought a house, The Money Pit With Mold That Will Never Be Finished. He's living in the basement.

Posts: 726 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

Welcome! It gets better. Truly.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7646 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

Hi, triple! Come on in and make yourself at home.

You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams

Posts: 25337 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

Welcome! NB is about so much more than dating (I feel the need to mention that to newbies down here!)

We are a great group of people and look forward to sharing in your triumphs as you reclaim your life and find fabulousness again!

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo

Posts: 3359 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, December 5th (Thursday)


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings

Posts: 4142 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, December 5th (Thursday)


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, December 5th (Thursday)


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."

Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
little turtle
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, December 5th (Thursday)

Hey there!! Glad to see you'll be joining us. By the way I love this:
Love is a Verb.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4166 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 18375
Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

Howdy and welcome..

People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..

Posts: 1794 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
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