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No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, December 5th (Thursday)

Hey!
It sucks that I'm here but I'm ready to start living my life again. Totally on the D train and my WW could care less.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, December 5th (Thursday)

Welcome to NB. Have you given any thoughts to what your NB will bring? Hobbies? Travel? Back to school? Moving?


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25777 | Registered: Aug 2011
No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, December 5th (Thursday)

One step at a time. Just trying to survive and get in a normal flow


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
StillLivin
Member
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, December 5th (Thursday)

Before you know it, you will be at a dead sprint and enjoying life again!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2335 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
little turtle
Member
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, December 5th (Thursday)


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4209 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

I feel better now that a choice has been made. Limbo sucks


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
abbycadabby
Member
Member # 27428
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

(((No1)))

I feel better now that a choice has been made. Limbo sucks

I'll never forget the peace I felt after I finally made the decision to D. After a halfhearted attempt at R things escalated to the point where I felt I was in limbo again. I hate that feeling.

And welcome!


Posts: 1272 | Registered: Feb 2010
No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

Feel like a phoenix rising from the ashes.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
little turtle
Member
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

Limbo was the worst. As much as I didn't want to divorce, it felt great once I made the decision and was able to start preparing for the rest of my life. Looking back, I don't know why I fought so hard to stay married. I was the only one fighting for it!

Like you said, one step at a time. Keep moving forward.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4209 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
better4me
Member
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

Welcome to the NB club No1. Glad to have you here with us NBers!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3213 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
wildbananas
Member
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

Welcome!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15415 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
macakipa
Member
Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, December 6th (Friday)

Welcome! Welcome! Welcome!


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)

I was asked to go have a beer with friends after work and watch the game. One of them happens to be a female that I get along with. I'm excited!


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
lieshurt
Member
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)

One of them happens to be a female that I get along with. I'm excited!

Slow down there. Go out and have fun, but do not even begin to try to rush into anything right now.


Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13811 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)

Oh, I'm not ready for that. We just like to talk and it will be a group setting. Just friends, honestly.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
PhoenixRising88
Member
Member # 35214
Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)

Feel like a phoenix rising from the ashes.

OMG exactly - Which is why I changed my username to what I did when I upgraded!


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 429 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
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