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lisaloo
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Member # 20082
Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, December 6th (Friday)

If it's not going in WHs car, then what's the best place in the house? Ideas?


Me: 33 STBXH: 34 DD: 8
D Day (EA): 6-19-08
D Day #2 (SA): 7-5-10
D Day #3 (EA): 11-8-13
WH moved out: 11-18-13
Moved BACK IN (because the lawyer told him to): 11/29/13.
Filed for Divorce: 12-9-13
In house separation...fun, fun, fun.

Posts: 474 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: AL
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, December 6th (Friday)

Close to where WH talks on his phone or the computer/ skype.
There's tons of info on this in the "other" forum we have.

Yep, BTDT

[This message edited by gma56 at 4:22 PM, December 6th (Friday)]


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
lieshurt
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, December 6th (Friday)

Be sure to double check the laws in your state concerning this before you try planting a var.


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13726 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Gemini71
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Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, December 6th (Friday)

Carry the VAR on your person. Record conversations with STBX so when he starts making shit up (you were abusive and calls the cops, etc) you can prove him wrong.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1659 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
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