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movingforward13
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Member # 38405
Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, December 8th (Sunday)

I got married exactly one year ago to the father of my son and the man who I thought was the love of my life. It was a beautiful wedding, elegantly put together, wonderful food, exquisite wedding cake, photo booth and a very funny officiant whom all the guest loved. Two weeks later, I would find out about my husband busting a condom in med girl, freaking out that she would be pregnant and our lives would change as we knew it.

It has been a really trying year but I am some what healed, now divorced and moving forward.

Thank you SI- I thought this day would be hard for me... but I got off lucky to be done with him, his debt, his selfishness and his passive aggressiveness... Did I mention the emotional incest relationship he has with his mom?
Good luck Med Girl, you saved me.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 638 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, December 8th (Sunday)

Did I mention the emotional incest relationship he has with his mom?

I had this, too. So gross! We're lucky to be away from that.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3349 | Registered: Dec 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, December 8th (Sunday)

(((movingforward13)))

Wishing you a new year filled with happiness, love, and laughter.


Posts: 35137 | Registered: Mar 2011
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, December 8th (Sunday)

((((movingforward))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25296 | Registered: Aug 2011
exhausted lady
Member
Member # 30217
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, December 8th (Sunday)

Damn! I'm glad you wiped that dogshit off your shoe and decided to move forward without it!!!

Happy Antiversary, and I hope you have a happy, enjoyable New Beginning!

Yeah, MedGirl probably saved you from years of misery from that assclown!


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
lifestoshort
Member
Member # 18442
Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)

ugh, well at least you got out after less then a yr and you didnt wait for a 5th or so girl came along. good for you.
best wishes in the future!!


6/07 EX had several Emotional/sexual A
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09
2013- 10 month marriage &D to friend. he was a lyin, freeloadn biploar mess.
NOW? Living my life and loving it.


Posts: 691 | Registered: Mar 2008
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