Topic: Crappy hotel update (rambly. Sober, I promise :)
sunsetslost Member Member # 39885
Posted: 6:50 PM, December 8th (Sunday)
Entering week four. I had a productive week. Insurance and cable are handled. We have exactly zero common assets or liabilities. I've been working a lot, which is good.
It's quiet here. I'm settling in and comfortable. I feel less need to be on the phone or reaching out as I adjust to being by myself. I can finally totally and completely focus on long term. Friends ask what my plans are and when and I tell them whatever I want and whenever I want to do it. It's an amazing feeling. I did some Christmas cards yesterday and as I searched my old text messages for addresses I was struck by how far I've come on my journey. It was a bit of a revelation to me, in a good way. I have the opportunity to travel the last two weeks of the year. I'm excited. Good times ahead. STBX owes me some money and I'll get it. We have plans to meet and get half next Monday. I dread her changing her mind. I doubt it will happen but the thought occurs to me occasionally. I use the old texts and the memories of her walking out the door to go to him as fuel to propel myself away from her and the lies and betrayal.
Sorry so rambley. I'm on my first beer, I promise.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Posts: 773 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
IrishLass518 Member Member # 34373
Posted: 7:09 PM, December 8th (Sunday)
I didn't find it rambly at all. You are doing well and recognizing your milestones. You keep on working on you Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Posts: 1781 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Pass Member Member # 38122
Posted: 7:15 PM, December 8th (Sunday)
Your crappy hotel posts are inspirational, Sunny. Ramble on!Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous
Posts: 2143 | Registered: Jan 2013
SBB Member Member # 35229
Posted: 2:18 AM, December 9th (Monday)
I've seen Tesla post about cocooning - it is exactly what it is.
At first having so many options can be overwhelming - but then it gets exciting.
I'm excited for your future, SL!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5619 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia