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stunnedin12
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, December 9th (Monday)

As wh and I were making our breakfast this morning I had the totally random thought that, as far as I have been told, the morning routine we share is not something he shared with OW. I mean, it is certainly NOT exciting, romantic, or out of this world fun to be standing at the counter half awake opening a bottle of fish oil, thyroid medicine, cholesterol medicine or vitamins specifically for men over 50!

Wh and I are in a semi-decent place so I'm not going to bring that random thought up to him, but it did make me chuckle inside!


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 426 | Registered: Jan 2013
HoneyMe
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Member # 40613
Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, December 9th (Monday)

True love includes taking care of someone. It is wanting what is best for someone else. It is wanting them to be a good person. It is wanting them to be honest and full of integrity.

Of course that was not part of their affair.

I love our morning coffee time. Enjoy yours.


3 A's
Blinded-sided DD 9/2011
Again 11/2011 and then more truth the next day. Separated 4 months. 2012, the year of truth and reconciliation.

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TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, December 9th (Monday)

I love the way your thoughts work.

I was checking his back for acne this morning.

Bet they didn't share that either.

I chuckled as well.
Aw the romance :)


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

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Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, December 9th (Monday)

Yeah, I was ready to leave for work while he had just barely started to get moving. So before he got into the shower I asked if we could pray together (as is normal for us) so I could leave. He embraced me, snuggled into me, and then quietly asked if I thought that his morning breath was too nasty to pray with.

Completely cracked me up. Oh yeah, share THAT with some OW!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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Zayda1
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, December 9th (Monday)

Ha, ya pretty sure OW didn't put plantar wart meds on him like I do, or wash his underwear, or take pictures of the top of his head every couple of months so he could see if his hair growth meds were working


Married 9 years, together for 11 years
2 children (7 years & 4 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)

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TheAmazingWondertwin
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Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, December 10th (Tuesday)

Brought him a trash can to vomit into while He sat on the toilet because it was coming out both ends.
Yah- that's love.

Sorry for the graphics- but... You know, we do a lot.

[This message edited by TheAmazingWondertwin at 7:40 AM, December 10th (Tuesday)]


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 470 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
stunnedin12
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Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, December 10th (Tuesday)

Ah, I just knew people would understand here!

I know one of wh reasons behind the affair was the excitement and all - but you know....

sometimes it is that day to day CARING we need to remember!


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 426 | Registered: Jan 2013
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