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LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

When you (WS) ended the affair or whatever, did you start dreaming of the OP?

I checked out my WW facebook post and I assumed right away...

The only thing bad about sleeping is dreaming. And I can't make it stop.

More insult to injury, I ask her did she dream about me...the answer...no, now she dreams of this POSOM.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1036 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

Lost,
You have to disengage from her. It''s only causing you more pain. Focus on you, not her.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3728 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

Your right, because I can feel this taking a toll on my body.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1036 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

The only thing bad about sleeping is dreaming. And I can't make it stop.
I remember feeling this way. You would think that sleep would be welcoming. Only it wasn't. And I couldn't do anything to control my dreams.

When you (WS) ended the affair or whatever, did you start dreaming of the OP?
For me, they weren't "dreams", they were nightmares. Yes, I had them. Frequently at first. But as I worked on myself and focused on my marriage and healing more, they came less and less.

I still have nightmares with AP in them every blue moon. But it's not a fond thing.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

Can you point in the direction of a good 180 success story... I want to do it.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

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Ellephantastic
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, December 13th (Friday)

I had nightmares of WBF and OW. Quite often I would wake up having a panic attack


BS(me)
WBF = PA
Ow = 19(at the time)
WBF A = 08/10/2012-17/10/2012
D-Day = 24/01/2013

"It was easier for him to hurt me than it was for him to turn her down"


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