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confused52204
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

Does that warm fuzzy feeling love still exist? It is worth looking for? I know that everything isn't rainbows and butterflies but sometimes I just wish that Prince Charming will sweep me off my feet when I'm ready. Maybe I've find this to myself. Ever since I can remember I look at love and marriage as a fairy tale. Yet I keep going knocked down. D my first husband. Just separated from my fiancÚ and called off a wedding.

Are there new beginnings???


Posts: 526 | Registered: Nov 2007
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

It does exist. It's not easy, because we're a bit more cautious. I've had that feeling more than once since my D, and it's awesome.

Have hope.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7761 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
fireproof
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

I think it does exist but in a different way. I think as corny as it sounds you learn to be in love with yourself.

Your strength your wisdom to see your relationship through or not.

I think it does exist in a romantic way but people now unlike when you are young in love have baggage. It is a experienced older pair of eyes and the blissfully in love at times can happen but the realistic adult edge will always be there.

Focus on activities that make you happy and enjoy. The right person will just add the icing


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JenniMay
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Cool  Posted: 6:18 PM, December 13th (Friday)

I think it does...& I can't believe I just admitted that!

I'm 4.5 years out from DDay and separation.

Just recently, I came across a very nice gentleman that made my heart do flip-flops. I never, ever thought I could feel that way again...I swore I had ice pumping through my veins. LOL!

It was the first time I could actually fathom myself in a romantic relationship! We talked for 2 hours straight, which is extremely uncharacteristic for me, but we had so much in common & he was such a cutie.

I'm still thinking about him!


Betrayed after 13 years of marriage.
DDay & Separated - June 2009
Divorced - March 2010


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