Oh my word....... As of Monday morning I'm off to make appointments with Dr. for STI testing and an appointment with a L. This "realisation" just took place due to a 'gym' shirt in the wash that smells freshly laundered..... took me a long time. How sad! Me: BS Married 10 years, together 20
Him:WH - EA with engaged COW.
'If you come into my life, the door is open; If you leave my life, the door is open; Just one request, don't stand in the doorway, you're blocking the traffic'
Posts: 122 | Registered: Oct 2013
TrustGone Member Member # 36654
Posted: 2:59 PM, December 13th (Friday)
After the initial shock wears off, you do start to see things as they really are. No way to avoid those red flags flying around anymore. You have reached the stage of acceptance now. The person we thought we married never/does not exist and it their place is this person you don't really even know. Welcome to the roller coaster ride from hell. Buckle up, you haven't seen nothing yet. (((HUGS)))BW-50
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.
Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
silverhopes Member Member # 32753
Posted: 3:02 PM, December 13th (Friday)
This "realisation" just took place due to a 'gym' shirt in the wash that smells freshly laundered..... took me a long time. How sad!
How sad that he did this to you and keeps doing this to you. Shame on HIM.
Find peace. Or sleep on it.
"Not my monkeys. Not my circus." ~Polish proverb (<~~~ as a codependent person, this comes in handy sometimes!)
Posts: 3880 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California