User Topic: 4th Antiversary - a hopeful message
Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, December 13th (Friday)

I can't believe it... The 4th Antiversary of our DDay flew by without me even realizing it had happened.

No drama
No anxiety
No triggers

Nothing... it was days later before I'd even remembered that it had passed.

We are doing very well... I would say we are Reconciled.

If you're fresh to Infidelity or been struggling with it for awhile just know that recovery and healing is possible.

FWSO is as committed to healing our relationship as I am... It took a lot of hard work to get to this point and we continue to work on our Relationship daily.

But this is possible!!

I wish Love, Peace and Healing to all my SI family!

Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24596 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, December 13th (Friday)

Wow that's great... Congrats. I am two years in and very down so it's good to hear good news

Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, December 13th (Friday)

Seems as far off as the horizon...thanks for the encouragement.

Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 512 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, December 13th (Friday)

I'm happy for you, Jrc!

Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."

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