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Cabrona
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Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, December 15th (Sunday)

...unfortunately thats the BAD news. He is driving me NUTS! Right now he is making spaghetti for breakfast. That is not my objection, he put the noodles in a pan with cold water and boiled the crap out of them. I need to get him to just STOP!


"The truth is, everybody is going to hurt you... you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." óBob Marley

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hit-by-a-train
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, December 15th (Sunday)

Oh dear.....I think I would have bolted at "spaghetti for breakfast". You are made of sterner stuff than I am.....

Mine likes to cook, too, but he's actually good at it.


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus
**Beloved hubby died at home 1/28/2013, age 61..** God sent me two good men in a row......and saved the best for last. Remarried 2/14/14, grief and joy....

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Cabrona
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, December 15th (Sunday)

AND he took frozen chicken breasts directly from the freezer, cut them into chunks and FRIED them and tossed them into the noodle mess! *shudder*.


"The truth is, everybody is going to hurt you... you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." óBob Marley

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hit-by-a-train
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, December 15th (Sunday)

You may just want to - very gently, of course - decline any offers to share his culinary masterpiece with him.......I'm just sayin'


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus
**Beloved hubby died at home 1/28/2013, age 61..** God sent me two good men in a row......and saved the best for last. Remarried 2/14/14, grief and joy....

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, December 15th (Sunday)

Christmas gift idea! Couples cooking lessons?

No?

Ok. In all seriousness, communicate with him. Tell him what ever it is that is underneath you wanting him to stop. If that is the fact that his cooking is awful? Do it with a velvet glove. ((((Cabrona))))


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