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Daisy1967
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Stop  Posted: 10:01 AM, December 15th (Sunday)

I have to wonder if some of the BS are somehow on a punishment kick? Revenge.

All I know is that no matter what I have ever done or not done, it has never ever been good enough for DH. Now that I fucked up majorly, two years ago, he goes from acting sort of normal to absolutely abusive and acts like I deserve to pay and pay and pay, over the A.

If we are so bad, just divorce us, please.

And yes, I know what I did. I just don't think that paying for it the rest of my life is warranted or even fair, especially considering the way he treated me before and after the A. Hell, even criminals get a definite sentence.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

You have a choice in this as well. Why do you/did you stay?


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

Daisy,

I saw in your other post that your BH has threatened you and your son with physical violence. Are you safe now? Are you able to get to a safe place?

AN


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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RuinedEverything
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

I honestly feel the exact way you do.

Posts: 30 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Canada
Daisy1967
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

He did not threaten my son. My son just happened to witness the stuff.

I am safe. He just enjoys telling me how I am mean to the kids and mocking me always. Being angry with me for no reason. No matter what I do or don't never ever good enough.

I am seeing an attorney next Month.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

I'm glad you are taking steps to get out of your abusive situation.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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