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1bigidiot79
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

Today is my 12th wedding anniversary. Unfortunately it is the first one since the shit hit the fan so instead of it being a celebration of our love and marriage it is a somber day. I gave her a small sentimental type present along with a card with a short bit written in it from my heart. It was received OK and she thanked me. I told her I loved her and kissed her on the top of her head. She said nothing and now the day is like any other day around here lately.

Just feeling down and out knowing my selfish decisions created all of this. The silver lining is it just makes me want to work that much harder to make sure this is the last anniversary ever spent like this.


DDay 7/23/13
TT on 3/5/14 - Finally came completely clean
Finally working on making real changes in my life, one day at a time.

Posts: 164 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: United States
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

The silver lining is it just makes me want to work that much harder to make sure this is the last anniversary ever spent like this.

This is a good way to look at it. Also, ...it's tough but she's still there with you. You guys are having this anniversary together.

Keep going.


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D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

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