Wayward Side
User Topic: time line
Member # 36506
Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

Started a time line today. Heart breaking all over again. Going over this again is painful and making me sick. I know I should have done a long time ago. But I wasn't capeable to do so then. I TT'd for months (self protection). And then spent the next year working on my self and helping Teach to heal.

I may not have always done the right thing in our R but I have done a lot of growing and changing. And in so many ways our marriage is better. All I want is for Teach to be happy and to someday be able to forgive me.

I don't know if this time line will do any of that but she wants it and has been asking for a long time. I may not have every answer she needs but ill give her everything I know. And know as fact not an opinion of what may have been.

Need a lot of strength over the next few days and weeks

Posts: 290 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 41034
Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

A timeline hurts a lot, but you can at least prevent any future TT. I know I can't help you but I wish you luck!

Me- WGF 22
Him- BBF 21
August 2011
September 26th, 2013

"A lesson is learned. Life is. Simply. There is no Death. There is no Before. There is no After. All is in Flux. Simply."

Posts: 187 | Registered: Oct 2013
Member # 40358
Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, December 15th (Sunday)

Good luck:) I'm still waiting on mine!!!
I know u can do it, it's sooooo worth it

Bs: me 32 WH: 36
Dday: July 2012
LTA: 4years (ea, pa)
Dd-4. Ds-2
My life is shattered unsure about R

Posts: 140 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: canada
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