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helplessme
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Stop  Posted: 9:55 PM, December 16th (Monday)

It's so close to Christmas and everybody seems to be merrying but me

It's our first Christmas after DDay and my bluest in life ever. I am not even sure if my BH will be spending the holidays with me. Sad sad sad

Happy Holidays SI ... is anyone unmerrying with me? How do you plan to celebrate, if that's even an appropriate term to use


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, December 17th (Tuesday)

Helpless...

I'm sorry you're struggling right now, I know the first holiday season can be so emotional. I hope you can find some joy in doing something that makes you feel good.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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helplessme
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

Thank you Deeply Scared

Hope you will have fun this holidays too ..

I will try


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KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

I'm right there with you, helplessme. Our first Christmas was kind of a blur, and I'm definitely feeling the blues now. Hold on. It does get better. I promise.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 754 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
helplessme
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Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Kbeguile,

Promise?

Thank you for letting me know it's going to be better. I'm so devastated. I can not even plan for Christmas celebration. I pity my kids.


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