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strawblond30
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

So my ex moved out in July , Divorce was In June. I ( we) had pedal tractors on side of my house as decor in the landscaping . Last week he decided to sell them on eBay my lawn ornaments . Yes he bought them years ago and months after he moves out comes and sells them wtf. And then decide to store a bingo machine and other junk in my basement after moving. I'm so pissed. I have rights to that money he is making off this stuff.


Me 39, EX H 40 married 17 years infidelity on both parts . He a serial cheater. I cheated for revenge and ran home to brag. Or make Him mad. He confessed to more affairs after that. We are now divorced living apart . 3 children

Posts: 957 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: illinois
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

Was he awarded them in the divorce? If not, then that is theft and I would file charges against him for that.

Also, how is he getting into your home? Does he still have a key?


Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13810 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
anewday78
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

And then decide to store a bingo machine and other junk in my basement after moving.

You may want to verify your state laws but I'm pretty sure that's considered abandoned property. Sell it and pocket the cash! You can buy new lawn ornaments with the proceeds!

Posts: 350 | Registered: May 2013
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

Strawblond,

STBXH was kicked out 2 years ago. He was given a chance to get all his stuff. As of now I am selling his stuff on Craigslist. This includes new leather coats, tools, skis, etc. I almost hope he sees they are for sale.

We have signed the settlement agreement and will be officially divorced soon, so he can't do anything.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 785 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Pippy
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

Really? You want to get into a battle over money from 2 lawn ornaments? Don't you want to move forward? Getting through a D is the toughest thing you will go through. Pick your battles wisely.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
torn2bits
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Member # 28376
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, December 17th (Tuesday)

I would have to agree with Pippy. Put that guy in your rearview mirror.

I am about to start the battle and just said to myself that I am not going to fight about the 25 yrs of stuff in that house.

Peace of mind is soooo much better!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
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