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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Please keep our good friend BMC0415 in your thoughts and prayers.

She’s on an awful road right now with a very sick grandson and her father both in the hospital and could really use some SI love, hugs and support.

Her precious baby boy has a very bad case of pneumonia and has been put on oxygen. He is not responding as they’ve hoped and his vital signs are lowering when he sleeps.

He father had a heart attack on Monday and he will be having open heart surgery either today or tomorrow.

As you know, she lost a precious granddaughter last year and is fearful fate is reappearing.

Any prayers and good thoughts you can spare would be appreciated.

Thank you all!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((((((((BMC0415)))))))))

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Sending prayers


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Sending everything I've got. ((((BMC & family))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this ((((BMC))))

Sending strength and positive, healing thoughts to her and her family.

((((BMC))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

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Fireball72
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

I remember BMC very well.

Holding her and her family in my thoughts today. ((((BMC))))


XBS - 42 and fabulous :D
Remarried happily in 2013
A relationship is built for two. But apparently, some bitches don't know how to count!

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Sending prayers and strength to BMC and her family

(((HUGS)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to hear this. I was just thinking of her the other day. She is a truly beautiful person with such a huge heart. I will keep her and her family in my prayers.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((((BMC and Family)))))

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((BMC)))

Saying prayers and keeping her family in my thoughts.


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Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Sending Angels and prayers...

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Oh no. BMC has such a compassionate and generous heart.

****strength and healing vibes****


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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Kodi
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((BMC)))

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ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Prayers!


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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dazdandconfuzed
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Sending you all lots of healing mojo (((BMC)))


Me - BW
Him - WH

Posts: 6621 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Massachusetts
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

BMC, I will be praying for you, your precious grandson, and your beloved father. May God wrap you in his arms and give you strength and comfort.

Many hugs,

Lala


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
5yo GS & 18 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((BMC & family)))


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9766 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((((BMC)))))

Sending prayers that God's hand will be over you all through this, that healing will be quick, and that you will feel his comfort during this very scary time.


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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((((BMC0415))))

Sending her tons of good thoughts and strength to (hopefully) help in this scary time.


"Everybody's life is hard. You look at life, and it's not a cakewalk. You've got to be able to bounce back." --Neil Young, father to two children with CP, another with epilepsy, and otherwise experientially qualified to comment

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Sending loving thoughts to BMC and her family.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Healing thoughts and prayers to BMC and family.

(((BMC)))


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24347 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
BMC0415
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Thank you my dear friends it has been a long time. Just marked the passing of my grandbaby, Zariya on the 12th, Can't believe it has been a year. Now Jamarion same age 1 yrs old., same kind of condition, I just can't go thru it. And prayers for my father as well.

The OC will be here for christmas vacation so looking forward to seeing my babies again,maybe help to keep my calm. Thank you so much for your support.


Me: 40+ Him: 40+
Married: 20+ years
D-Day: 3/7/07
Children: 24dd,23ds,21dd
10 yr. LTA 3OC w/OW 10,10,16 8/14/12-gave custody of twins to ex 8/16/12-DIVORCED!

Posts: 2913 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Maryland
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

{{{BMC}}}
You are an amazing and strong person.
I'm really sorry for all that you are going through....my thoughts are with you.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7696 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
unfound
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((bmc))) holding you close in my heart.


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((((bmc))))


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Oh, no! Millions of hugs and prayers.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8329 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((BMc)). So many thoughts for you and yours.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((((BMC&family)))) Love, prayers, and healing thoughts going out to you and yours.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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forksintheroad
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Many prayers coming your way!


35 BW(me); 35 FWH(him)
2DD's 6 yrs, 3 yrs; 2dogs/3cats
Together 16 yrs, married 8 yrs
DDay May 29, 2011; EA/PA Nov 05-March 06; working on R
People may not remember what you did or said but they will always remember how you made them feel

Posts: 310 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Massachusetts
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

you and your family will be in my prayers this evening.
sending strength

(((BMC)))


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2551 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Prayers on the way (((BMC))).


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


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trying to smile
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

(((BMC))) sending angels honey. Stay strong.XXxx


Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Do, or do not. There is no try.
Yoda

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BMC0415
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Member # 14038
Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Thank you so much for your prayers and positive thoughts. Jamarion is being released from the hospital this morning. I can't tell you how relieved I am. My father also came thru his by-pass surgery and is in recovery.

Thanks so much my SI friends!

[This message edited by BMC0415 at 9:19 AM, December 19th (Thursday)]


Me: 40+ Him: 40+
Married: 20+ years
D-Day: 3/7/07
Children: 24dd,23ds,21dd
10 yr. LTA 3OC w/OW 10,10,16 8/14/12-gave custody of twins to ex 8/16/12-DIVORCED!

Posts: 2913 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Maryland
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Woo Hoo!!!

Prayers answered!!!


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

I am so happy to hear that, BMC!! I will continue to send healing thoughts for their continued health. Thank you so much for the update.

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simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

This is fantastic news!!!


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5829 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

BMC thank you for posting an update! you are always in my prayers. we should all have hearts as good as yours.

Keeping all of you in my prayers for continued good health! I'm so thrilled you get to spend time with the OC at Christmas.

Merry Christmas!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Thanks for the update, BMC. I've been praying for your little angel, your dad and you, especially, since I saw the original post.

Keeping you covered in prayer, our sweet sister in faith.

HS


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2659 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

Sending prayers


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

(((BMC)))

Thanks for the update- and I'm so glad it was a happy one!!


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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

What a wonderful update, thanks for posting this.

Sending continued strength and healing thoughts.

((((BMC))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

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AgainandAgain
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

Happy to see a positive update! I will still keep you and your family in my prayers.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

What wonderful news - thank you for the update! Sending prayers and good thoughts - especially to your sweet angel.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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Want2help
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

I also was just thinking of BMC the other day.

(((BMC)))

You are always in my thoughts.


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
Surprise OC born 3/08 (NC)
7 years into successful R.
"That which can be destroyed by truth should be." -P. C. Hodgell

Posts: 2158 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, December 21st (Saturday)

Sending prayers for complete and quick healing


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4850 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, December 21st (Saturday)

So happy for you at the positive turn of events. Continued prayers and love for complete recoveries


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

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