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ninebark
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

I just wanted to share something that happened to me today. I had to talk to my FMIL today and at the end of the coversation she said. "I just wanted you to know you are doing a wonderful job raising DS". It brought me to tears.


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
seekingright2013
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Member # 37991
Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

That's wonderful, especially since it's from your FMIL. Glad she recognizes your love and hard work !


BSO, 53
exWSO, who cares
DD: 11/18/12
DD2: 11/21/12
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
I tramp a perpetual journey.
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

Posts: 117 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)


Posts: 35401 | Registered: Mar 2011
Blackhair
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Member # 39451
Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

That is definitely a great compliment, my mil has been a great support during our separation.

She knows what XWH was doing is wrong, she asked me to visit her all the time but I always try to stay some distance as one day if XWH brings ow to visit her, I don''t think she will say no.

Back in my mind she is still his mom.


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met many times with a Philippine girl found online (20 yrs younger)
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 177 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Awesome!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9714 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Violated
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Member # 21239
Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

(((Ninebark)))


Divorced 10/2013

Posts: 545 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: West Coast
ninebark
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Member # 24534
Default  Posted: 3:01 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

My MIL has no idea her son is a selfish lying, cheating jerk. At the time of the A she was in cancer treatment so I didn't want to burden her, now I just don't have the heart to tell her. She is such a wonderful lady, I have no idea how she spawned such a creature.

My FIL's are the only things I miss about our marriage so I make sure DS gets to see them all the time. It is nice though to get recognized by the other side of the family. It really made my day.


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

how nice to hear!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
ChoosingHope
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Member # 33606
Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

That's awesome.

Posts: 1701 | Registered: Oct 2011
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

Wow... that's awesome! You must be doing something right!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
NaiveAgain
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Member # 20849
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

That had to be wonderful to hear...


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15241 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
NotFixable
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Member # 41608
Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

That was a great compliment! It had to make you feel great!!


Me-BS
Him-WH
Married 13 years
DD #1 03/12
DD #2 11/20/13
Status: Separated and planning D
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Nowhere left to go but up!


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